The old farmer often said: 'A good man without sex is afraid of being weak, and a good woman without sex is afraid of being weak.' What does it mean?
As one of the oldest nations in the world, China, after five thousand years of vastness, our cultural treasure house has been filled with countless treasures. I believe these are invaluable treasures to each of us. Because these are passed down from generation to generation by our ancestors, it is precisely because of the inheritance and innovation from generation to generation that we can stand proudly among the nations of the world. Some wealth is tangible, and some wealth is intangible, but the power and impact it brings to us cannot be underestimated.
Although science and technology are very developed now, everyone's thinking is constantly leaping, but no matter when, we always emphasize that we must not forget the traditional culture, and the nation is the world. As China becomes more and more prominent on the world stage, Chinese traditional culture also attracts more and more people's attention. Among them, colloquialism is unique. In fact, each period has a different proverb. Although they are not elegant, it is precisely because of their down-to-earth that we can see characters, cultures, customs and lives of different periods through proverbs.
As the saying goes, it is easy to understand, but simplicity often contains a very great philosophy of life. However, there are also proverbs that confuse people when they hear them. For example, many people have misunderstood the phrase "a good man who has no sex is afraid of being weak, and a good woman who has no sex is afraid of being weak". Everyone usually takes this sentence literally, so they misunderstand sex. What does it really mean?
In ancient times, it was generally believed that everything has two sides, namely Yin and Yang. If you want balance, you have to reconcile Yin and Yang. Everything in the universe should follow this law, and men and women in the world are no exception. However, one of the most important things is the sex in "a good man who has no sex is afraid of not being strong, and a good woman who has no sex is afraid of being weak", but the "sex" here does not refer to what everyone thinks, but human nature , ambition, temper, ideal, etc.
No matter in any age, if a man has no temper and sense of responsibility, it is a sad thing. Being an ambitious, responsible, and responsible man is the most basic thing. If you only want to eat enough for one person all day long and the whole family is not hungry, the whole society must have been in chaos long ago.
For women's sexuality, it represents ideals and nature. For a long time, women's status in society and family is relatively low. Everyone believes that women's innocence is a virtue, so they put all their minds on their husbands and children, and eventually become the wife and mother of so-and-so, but they cannot be themselves. In fact, the idea that men are superior to women has undergone earth-shaking changes, and women can still be independent, so women must have ideals and nature, and are unwilling to become accessories of men. After all, your appearance is easy to age, and in the end the only person you can rely on is yourself.
"A good man without sex is afraid of being weak, and a good woman without sex is afraid of being weak" is actually a very philosophical proverb, but many people misinterpret its meaning with the superficial meaning. I hope you can understand it correctly and at the same time understand what it contains profound philosophy of life.