As the saying goes: 'A good man who has no sex is afraid of being weak, and a good woman who has no sex is afraid of being weak.' Does the old ancestor make sense?
"A good man is afraid of being weak without sex, and a good woman is afraid of being weak without sex ." What does this sentence mean? Nowadays, many people don't know the specific meaning of this sentence, and there are even twisted explanations. What did the ancients want to tell us through this sentence?
One, a good man is asexual and afraid of infirmity
First of all, "a good man is afraid of not being strong without sex." In this regard, "sex" refers to "character" and one's "ideals, ambitions", etc., which is completely opposite to what everyone understands. Refers to the meaning of perseverance, which means an enterprising and responsible person, who often has his own personality and opinions.
In ancient times, men's character was paid more attention to. In ancient times, men's status was higher than that of women. But for modern people, it is temper.
If it's just a man who meets some people, just withdraws, and always hides behind women, then other people can't be trusted either. It can be seen that whether it is life or work, a person's tough character is very important, which requires a man who can take up the responsibility of the family.
A good man's ambition is everywhere, and a real man should be the highest. Young people often have ambition, but many have no ambition. Everyone's ideas are different, but they are mostly similar. Everyone had their own brilliant dreams in childhood.
Many people like to talk about ideals, and it is good to have dreams after all, but the so-called dreams of many people do not have a long-term, sustainable plan and plan. After clarifying the path you want to take, you will keep going, and be able to persevere in overcoming various factors that hinder your progress, and finally achieve success.
There is no end to learning, there is no end to learning, and the fear of success is exposed! Everything must be persistent and persistent, and good results are bound to be achieved. Moreover, if a person does not have a strong heart, or is afraid of wolves and tigers, it will naturally be difficult for him to develop greatly.
In an era of materialistic desires and temptations, as a good man with lofty aspirations, we must preserve our original aspirations. If there is no long-term plan, it will be difficult to achieve real success if you change your mind in three days or two days and spend your whole life.
Second, a good woman is asexual and afraid of being unpopular
There is also "a good woman who has no sex is afraid of not being able to grow seedlings." The so-called "planting" refers to the seedlings in the ground. This sentence can be understood as: If an excellent woman lacks her own personality and assertiveness, she will be covered with weeds like rice, and will not be able to bear fruitful ears of rice.
Educational resources were very scarce in ancient times, and many families required boys to be able to read and write. Except for the big names, girls from common people have almost no education. Therefore, women's knowledge in ancient times was difficult to obtain, and it was only a foil to men.
In terms of women, their status was relatively low in ancient times. Although the ancient rulers advocated that women should pursue the "three obediences and four virtues", women should not have their own personality and opinions, but should treat their husbands obediently. Therefore, it is the truth that a good woman is asexual and afraid of being unpopular.
Due to the lack of knowledge, no matter whether it is a big matter or a small matter, women often lack their own opinions. They can only turn to others for help and be at the mercy of others. Moreover, once women get used to this kind of lifestyle dominated by others, they will inevitably live at a disadvantage for a long time, and they will inevitably be bullied by others.
Therefore, for a woman, just having appearance does not mean anything, you have to have time to grasp those things that cannot be grasped. This is your own personality and temperament, so that even when you look old, you still have something you can get, instead of losing all your chips at once.
At this moment, this statement is not outdated, but has more practical significance: because in today's fierce competition in the workplace, if men and women want to stand out, they must have their own opinions, personality, perseverance, and don't follow the trend, otherwise , are easily eliminated.
Life is better to be peaceful than mediocre. A man can't aim too high. The success stories of many people are just the ultimate in perseverance. When women face mundane affairs, don't depend on others. Only you are the protagonist of your life journey! Everyone knows, what do you think?