As the saying goes: A good man who has no sex is afraid of being weak, and a good woman who has no sex is afraid of being weak. What is 'asexual'? Does it make sense?
For five thousand years, Shanghua has bred a rich and colorful traditional culture. For each of us, it is undoubtedly a treasure in the treasure house of wisdom and culture passed down by our ancestors through thousands of years. Even in today's big world where foreign cultures are constantly merging, traditional culture still attracts people to learn! Among them, the saying is more unique. It is an important cultural phenomenon of our Chinese nation. As the saying goes, we can see the characters, culture, customs, life, portrayal, psychology, etc. of each historical period.
For example, it is better to make jade and be broken than to make pottery. Tell us, whether a person is a person or doing things, don't lose integrity and dignity, because this will be ridiculed by the world, such as an egret guarding a beach, and a pier guarding a coast. From this sentence, we can get a glimpse of the hard work of the dock workers at that time. Furthermore, God's eyes are a little bit, and the dark room tells us that we must always abide by our bottom line, do not lose to others, do not be greedy, do not fall in love, be at ease and calm, and be at ease in our hearts!
And today the author shared with you a thought-provoking saying, a good man without sex is afraid of not being strong, and a good woman without sex is afraid of not being strong, is it reasonable for the old ancestors to say? When I first heard this saying not long ago, Monk Zhang Er was a little confused, and even misunderstood the sex in it. Afterwards, under the patient explanation of the elders, I deeply understood the philosophy of life contained in it.
In ancient times, people believed that everything in the world is Yin and Yang, and the natural universe is in balance! The same is true between men and women. Men are for thinking and courage, women are for tenderness and grace. A man's masculinity needs to be reconciled with a woman's femininity, and a woman's softness also needs a man's masculinity as a foundation, so that a woman's femininity can be fully displayed and a certain degree of balance can be achieved. But no matter what two people lack, there is one thing that cannot be lacking, that is, human nature, ambition and ideal! As the saying goes, if you have aspirations, you can cross the ocean, but without ambitions, you can't move an inch!
Moreover, a good man has no sex and is afraid of not being firm, and a good woman has no sex and is afraid of not being strong. The sex in it is actually nature, character, ambition, and temper. This sentence means that if a man has no nature and ambition, it is difficult to show his true self, and it is likely that his future career will not be very smooth and he will not have a good climate. Similarly, if a woman loses her ideals and nature, she will be as fragile as a seedling in the field, and there will be no good fruit when it matures.
Indeed, for a man, the so-called nature means being responsible and ambitious. It can be said that the courage to take responsibility is the most basic quality of a man. What is responsibility? It is to quarrel with my wife and try my best to mediate. Contradictions with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't blindly escape, and muddle along! It should be clearly stated. At the same time, you must be ambitious, so that you can have a harmonious family! Therefore, as a man, the most important thing is to have responsibilities, ideals, and ambitions!
The same goes for women. As we all know, in the thousands of years of history, although the status of ancient women has a brief glory, it is more humble and oppressive. As a man's vassal, your life depends on your husband, you can't have any opinions and ideas. However, the era we live in has undergone earth-shaking changes, and it is no longer an era in which men are superior to women. The role of women is becoming more and more important today! So as a woman, don't blindly rely on others, or rely on your own beauty, after all, your appearance is easy to age!
Only by believing in yourself, having ambition, having a career you like, and acting for it, can you get what you want! You can make yourself real and glamorous!
So what do you think of this proverb? Do you think what your ancestors said makes sense? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area.