As the saying goes, 'marry a wife to see your mouth, marry a man to see your hands', what can you see? Does it make sense

Most of the proverbs are experiences that people sum up in their daily life, but some are just superstitions. Although proverbs are a part of folk culture, they are not truth after all, so we should understand and analyze every proverb correctly. Let's take a look at the saying that marrying the mouth and marrying the Han nationality guards the hand, does it make sense? Can you really see a person?

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The meaning of this sentence is that when you marry a daughter-in-law, you should look at the woman's mouth. The ancients believed that the size and shape of a woman's mouth was the key to determining happiness in life. Although the ancients always claimed to marry a wife without color, most people still have certain requirements on a person's face before marriage.

It is precisely because of the old tradition that men and women do not kiss each other in ancient times. Generally speaking, normal communication between men and women does not exist, and some people even know it after marriage. In ancient times, unlike today, men and women were often together and fully understood. In feudal society, people can only judge people by their appearance.

Although a woman's appearance and temperament are not as important as morality, people's requirements for a woman before marriage, or hope that a woman can have a round face, symmetrical facial features, solemnity and dignity, think such a woman is suitable for life and a good wife for IKEA And mother, then, what can a woman's mouth see?

As we all know, the ancients were not only feudal, but also superstitious. Influenced by traditional concepts, most people worship physiognomy. In physiognomy, there is such a statement about a person's mouth shape. Generally speaking, the mouth shape is divided into blowing mouth, moon mouth, long mouth, cherry mouth, overturning mouth and so on.

Huokou represents poverty, Yangyue and Longkou represent wealth, Cherry Blossom represents wisdom and aesthetics, Fuhaikou represents poverty and mediocrity, and so on. Everyone has their own advantages. Everyone has a different mouth shape. Therefore, when you cannot understand a person deeply, you can use the mouth shape to judge a person's character.

The ancients believed that the shape of a woman's lips was often related to her happiness and health in life. If a woman's mouth is small and red, then she's more reserved and introverted, doesn't swing around, and isn't one of those talkative people.

It is often said that men eat everywhere and women eat money everywhere. It seems to people that if a woman has a big mouth, she will spend a lot of money on it. She is a frugal woman.

Hope for a happy family is everyone's yearning. Therefore, there is a saying that marry a wife and look at the mouth. Of course, this statement is not entirely correct. This is the so-called knowing the face and knowing the face, but not knowing the heart, which may wrong some virtuous and filial female friends. After all, this kind of school is not a fact, don't worry.

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This sentence means that when a woman marries a man, she should pay attention to the shape of a man's hands. The ancients believed that a large and strong palm represented a capable person, while a small and weak palm represented a person without survivability and ability. Why did you say that?

In fact, it was inseparable from the society at that time. In the agricultural age, hands were largely the main source of the economy. Men are supporters of the family. Whether their body is strong or not and the size of their palms is directly related to the economic ability of a family.

If a person has a strong palm, it means he can do better farm work and his family income will be higher. If a person is weak and his hands are weak, he cannot do farm work well. Therefore, there is a saying that marrying the Han nationality is to watch hands.

The editor believes that the saying that marrying a wife depends on the mouth, and marrying a man depends on the hand has a certain truth in the society at that time. However, given our current age, this is clearly a statement of judging people by their appearance. After all, big mouth and small mouth do not represent a person's happiness in life, and big hands and small hands do not represent a person's economic strength in life.

Because in reality, the hands of many rich people are small and soft, while the big and strong hands are the hands of the poor. Please believe that appearance and palms are only an objective factor. As long as you have a positive heart and treat people and things with your own wisdom and kindness, you can achieve happiness and success.