The old saying often says 'Men are as sexless as iron, women are as sexless as hemp', what does it mean? After reading it, I will increase my knowledge
In China, we pay great attention to interpersonal relationships, and we pay special attention to the character in interpersonal communication. The importance of a character's morality is sometimes related to an individual's future and destiny. Similar to the popular New Year's comments at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, the result of one person's judgment determines your future. But Guan Yu's personality, some people find that their personality is not good after dating for a period of time, or they don't conform to their three views, so there is no need to communicate with this kind of person, and even regret how they communicated with this kind of person in the first place.
In ancient China, there has always been a saying to judge people, just like judging people at the age of three, and judging the old at the age of seven. This is not unreasonable, nor is it superstitious. What kind of mess some people will be in this life can be seen in many things. In this article, we will discuss a proverb about looking at people that men have no sex like iron and women have no sex like hemp. Advice from the ancients.
Many young people these days may have never heard of this phrase, let alone what it means. The iron and hemp here is not the metallic iron and hemp cloth we want. This proverb contains a deep philosophy of looking at people. If you taste it carefully, you will feel a different understanding of life.
Men are as sexless as iron.
Therefore, the meaning of "men without sex are like iron" means that if a man has no personality and good qualities and abilities, he will be as useless as iron. Although this sentence comes from ancient times, the philosophy contained in it is not outdated. A man's ability to bear. Nowadays, when many men encounter blows in their careers and lives, they are often devastated, and shrink back when encountering difficulties, without any courage and confidence to make progress. While complaining about the unfairness of fate and the difficulty of life, at the same time, I don’t seek to make progress, and I don’t know how to strive for opportunities and achieve success through hard work. It is difficult for such a person who is lazy by nature and has no good qualities to succeed, and will only become the iron in the ancient population.
And those who are really strong, even if they encounter temptations and setbacks on the road of life, they will yearn for victory, overcome difficulties, keep moving towards the goal in their hearts, and finally go to victory. This is what everyone praises" steel". Therefore, as a man, you must have personality and ability.
female asexual
Next, let's talk about female asexuality. This sex also implies ability and talent in the second half. But this hemp is not the sackcloth we think of every day. The hemp here is a kind of sugar. Today, young people are largely unaware of this sugar. It will be sweet when imported, but after a long time, they will find it sticky and cannot be thrown away. Therefore, the ancients used hemp to describe asexual women.
Some women have only a pretty face and nothing useful in their hearts, that is, no talent, no intelligence, no personality. This beautiful woman was likely to be courted by many people when she was young, and many people tried to make friends with her. However, decades later, everyone is getting old, and the beauty capital of her youth has disappeared. At this time, sexual women, as well as inner wisdom and talent support, and sexual women have become troublesome in people's eyes.
Not attractive at all, even boring, especially some women who just complain all day and have nothing to do. Therefore, a woman without sex means that a woman without personality, intelligence and ability is as boring as sesame candy. You can't get rid of it.
A woman's virtue. Although many dynasties in ancient times paid attention to the virtue of women's lack of talent, but in spite of this, in all dynasties, smart women will get the other eye of others. The so-called talents are not only the talents of poetry, books and etiquette, but smart women are more popular. Today, the so-called vases are only outwardly incompetent. Even if such a person is brilliant for a period of time, he will not really be admired by people from the bottom of his heart. No matter when, talent and wisdom are the most important.