As the old saying goes, 'Men are as sexless as iron, and women are as sexless as hemp', what does it mean?
In China, we attach great importance to interpersonal relationships, especially the character in interpersonal communication. The importance of character morality is sometimes related to the future and destiny of the individual. Similar to the New Year's comments that were popular in the late Eastern Han Dynasty, the outcome of a person's judgment determines your future. But Guan Yu's character, after some people have been dating for a period of time, they find that their character is not good, or they do not conform to their three views, so there is no need to communicate with such people, and even regret how they communicated with such people in the first place.
In ancient China, there has always been a saying of looking at people, just like looking at the old at the age of three, and looking at the old at the age of seven. This is not unreasonable, nor is it superstitious. How some people will mix in this life, usually many things can be seen. In this article, we will discuss a proverb about looking at people, men are like iron, and women are like numbness. ancient advice.
Many young people these days may have never heard the phrase, let alone what it means. The iron and hemp here are not the metallic iron and hemp cloth we want. This proverb contains a profound philosophy of looking at people. If you taste it carefully, you will feel a different understanding of life.
Men are as sexless as iron.
Therefore, "men are as sexless as iron" means that if a man has no personality and no good qualities and abilities, he will be as useless as iron. Although this sentence comes from ancient times, the philosophy it contains is not outdated. A man's affordability. At present, when many men encounter the blow of career and life, they are often helpless, and they retreat directly when encountering difficulties, without the courage and confidence to make progress. While complaining about the injustice of fate and the difficulty of life, and at the same time not seeking to make progress, I don't know how to fight for opportunities and achieve success through hard work. This kind of lazy person who does not have any good qualities is difficult to succeed, and will only become iron in the ancient population.
And those who are really strong, even if they encounter temptations and setbacks on the road of life, they will yearn for victory, overcome difficulties, keep moving towards the goal in their hearts, and finally achieve victory, which is praised by everyone.” steel". Therefore, as a man, we must have personality and ability.
female sexless
Next, let's talk about female asexuality. This sex also means ability and talent in the second half. But this hemp is not the burlap we think of every day. The hemp here is a kind of sugar. Today, young people are basically unaware of this sugar. It will be sweet when imported, but after a long time they will find it sticky and can't be thrown away. Therefore, the ancients used hemp to describe asexual women.
Some women have nothing but a pretty face and nothing useful in their hearts, that is, no talent, no intelligence, no personality. This beautiful woman may have been pursued by many people when she was young, and many people are trying to make friends with her. However, after a few decades, everyone gets older and the beauty capital of her youth disappears. At this time, sexual women, and the inner wisdom and talent support, and sexual women have become trouble in people's eyes.
Not attractive at all, even boring, especially with some women who complain all day and do nothing. Therefore, the asexuality of a woman means that a woman without personality, intelligence, and ability is as boring as candy. You can't get rid of it.
The virtues of women. Although many dynasties in ancient times valued women's innocence as virtue, but despite this, in every dynasties, wise women will get another eye from others. The so-called talent is not only the talent of poetry, books and etiquette, but also smart women are more popular. Today, the so-called vase is only incapable of appearance. Even if such a person has a period of glory, it will not truly be admired by people from the bottom of their hearts. At any time, talent and wisdom are the most important.