The father watched his daughter play with his brother helplessly. Netizens: It’s too lonely

For many parents, they always think that their children are very introverted, because in their eyes, children dare not say hello when they see strangers, and just like to hide behind their parents, so most parents think that their children are very shy, but the fact is that children His social skills are actually very strong, and no one can resist his children's social skills.

For many children, as long as they are cute, they will be liked by many people, and children will have their own judgments when making friends, no matter how old they are, they will have their own judgments, and then decide who to play with , like this little girl in the video. In the video, a little girl is very cute, probably only two or three years old. At this time, she is playing with a man sitting on the sofa. The man wears a pair of glasses and plays very well with the child, even if the child wants to catch With his hair, he also let the child come, and he didn't avoid it at all. The two looked very close. It looked like a father and daughter. One was laughing and the other was making trouble. They looked very harmonious. As the camera turned , there is also a man wearing glasses sitting next to him. No one around him looks very lonely. The two men look very similar, and the subtitles also indicate that the lonely one is actually the father of the child. I have to say that the child is really It was a great time.

Netizens also found it funny about the father and daughter.

Netizen A: My dad is a little ordinary.

Netizen B: I died laughing.

Netizen C: Good guy, you have really good social skills.

After seeing the natural effect of this child getting along with others, I believe that many parents also hope that their children can have such good social skills, but sometimes they have no choice. So how should parents cultivate their children's social skills?

1. Start with eyes

In fact, no matter who you are, as long as you want to socialize, the eyes are very important, because in many cases, the eyes can also help people communicate. It is said that "the eyes are the windows of the soul", which means In addition to seeing things, the eyes are also necessary for communication. For example, when a person is inconvenient to speak, eye communication is very important at this time, or when a person keeps staring at others, others will You will know that this person has something to do with him. This is the only way to communicate with the eyes. Therefore, if you want to socialize, parents can first exercise their children's eyes, so that children should not avoid other people's eyes, but know how to look directly at others and speak. This way others will feel respected.

2. Precepts and deeds

In addition to eye contact, precepts and deeds are also very important, because in many cases, every move of parents can affect children. Whether it is the way of speaking or behavior, children may learn from parents and then become their own things. Therefore, parents want to Parents can also teach their children how to socialize. Letting children use eye contact is the first step in teaching children, and then teaching children how to communicate with others. Slowly and step by step, children will also learn. very good.

3. Cultivate children's cheerful personality

In addition to the above two points, it is also very important for parents to cultivate a cheerful personality in their children, because if a child is too introverted, the child will definitely not want to meet with others when facing strangers, and even wants to hide behind the parents , and because of their introverted personality, these children are actually very afraid of socializing, so instead of letting them learn other things, it is better to cultivate their personality first, which can also become the most fundamental point for children to socialize.

Did all the parents understand? So how do you train your child to socialize?