The father watched his daughter and his brother playing with fire with 'eyes', netizens: It's too lonely

For many parents, they always feel that their children are very introverted, because in the parents' eyes, the children do not dare to say hello when they see strangers, and just like to hide behind the parents, so most parents will think that the children are very afraid of life, but the fact is that the children The social skills of children are actually very strong, and no one can resist the social interaction of children.

For many children, as long as they are cute, they will be liked by many people, and children will also have their own judgments when making friends. No matter how old children are, they will have their own judgments, and then decide who to play with , just like the little girl in the video. In the video, a little girl is very cute, about two or three years old. At this time, she is playing with a man sitting on the sofa. The man wears a pair of glasses and plays very well with the child. Even if the child wants to catch He also let the child come with his hair, and did not avoid it at all. The two looked very close, as if they were father and daughter. One was laughing and the other was making trouble. It looked very harmonious. As the camera turned , There is also a man wearing glasses sitting next to him. No one around him looks very lonely. The two men look very similar, and the subtitles also show that the lonely one is actually the father of the child. I have to say that the child is really It's a lot of fun.

And netizens are also amused by the father and daughter.

Netizen A: My father is a little ordinary.

Netizen B: I died laughing.

Netizen C: Good guy, the social skills are really good.

Looking at the natural effect of this child getting along with others, I believe that many parents also hope that their children can have such good social skills, but sometimes they are helpless. So how should parents cultivate their children's social skills?

1. Start with the eyes

In fact, no matter who it is, as long as it is a person who wants to socialize, then the eyes are a very important existence, because many times the eyes can also help people communicate with things. They say "the eyes are the windows to the soul", which is the It is said that in addition to seeing things, the eyes are also necessary for communication. For example, when a person is inconvenient to speak, eye communication is very important, or when a person keeps staring at others, others also You will know that this person has something to do with him. This is the way of communication that belongs to the eyes. Therefore, if you want to socialize, parents can first exercise from the eyes of the child, so that the child should not avoid the eyes of others, but know how to look directly at others and speak. This way others will feel respected.

2. Teaching by precept and example

In addition to eye contact, teaching by words and deeds is also very important, because many times parents’ every move can affect their children. Whether it is the way of speaking or behavior, children are likely to learn from their parents and then become their own. Therefore, parents think Parents can also teach their children if they want their children to be social. Letting children make eye contact is the first step in teaching them how to communicate with others, and then try it out step by step, so that children will also learn how to communicate with others. very good.

3. Cultivate children's cheerful personality

In addition to the above two points, it is also very important for parents to cultivate a cheerful personality in their children, because if a child is too introverted, the child will definitely be reluctant to meet others when facing strangers, and even want to hide behind the parents. , and because of their introverted personality, such children are actually very afraid of socializing, so it is better to cultivate the child's personality first rather than let the child learn other things. This can also become the most fundamental point for children to socialize.

Do all the parents understand? So how do you train your kids to socialize?