The elder brother carefully peeled the quail eggs for his younger sister at school. Netizens: I really want to have such a brother!

It is said that "the younger sister is a love letter to the elder brother, and the younger brother is the letter of war to the elder sister", but this sentence is not wrong, because sometimes the relationship between brothers and sisters is indeed in line with the status quo of this sentence, although This is the case in most cases, but sometimes there are families where two children get along very well.

Generally speaking, if there is a brother and a sister in the family, then the two brothers and sisters will get along very well, because for the brother, he may be more willing to take care of the sister, which is also a feature of many brothers, and this one in the video The elder brother also puts taking good care of his younger sister first. There are two children in the video. A little girl is sitting and drinking soup with a bowl. I was in a hurry, which was inversely proportional to the little girl's leisurely ease. I saw my brother pick up quail eggs one after another from the dinner plate. In a hurry, I carefully took away any remaining eggshells on it, taking care of my sister very carefully. In the follow-up interview with the teacher, it can also be seen that the little boy takes good care of his sister. Although the two are young, they have been living in the school. The family education of the two brothers and sisters has also been well received by the teacher.

Not only that, but netizens also feel that the relationship between brother and sister is very good.

Netizen A: This brother! really attentive...

Netizen B: When my sister gets married, my brother will cry to death!

Netizen C: Really! Take good care of my sister!!

Seeing the brother who loves his sister so much, I believe everyone wants such a brother, but sometimes it is difficult for a second-child family, because most children will still have conflicts with each other, and most children The direct cause of previous conflicts may also be related to parents, so how should parents deal with conflicts between children?

1. Can accept the child's emotions

For two children, if the parents will not accept the children's emotions, then it is recommended that parents do not rush to have a second child. For the children, when the child is an only child, he enjoys the love of the whole family, and no matter what he does, there will be people who support it. When someone is spoiled, and Erbao is suddenly attracted without any notice, and when the parent's love is all transferred to Erbao, the child will naturally have something to complain about, because he is the one who is loved. People, the result is suddenly ignored. In this way, the child also suffers injustice in his heart, so he will naturally have a temper with the parents. At this time, the parents should not be too harsh on the child, because this approach will make the child hate Erbao more and more, so the parents Learn to accept your child's emotions.

2. More inclined to Dabao

What parents don't know a lot of times is that when there are two children in the family, what parents have to do is to prefer the big treasure. Many parents think that the children are small, so they always habitually prefer the second treasure. In fact, this is not the case. Not only will Dabao feel more resentful, but it will also deepen the conflict between Erbao and Dabao. However, if parents prefer Dabao, the situation will be different, because when parents favor Dabao, Dabao will always feel that he is being abused. I love them, so as long as they feel the love of their parents, Dabao can not only help parents take care of Erbao, but also willing to play with Erbao, parents don't have to worry about the contradiction between the two.

3. Parents should face up to their own problems

In most cases, when there is a problem between the children, parents are always reluctant to face up to their own reasons. The first thing parents do when their children are in conflict is to reprimand Dabao, but parents never feel that it is their eccentricity. As a result, parents should also recognize their own problems and actively communicate with Dabao when their children have conflicts, so that they can not only know Dabao's grievances, but also know where they are not good, and draw in their feelings with their children.

Did all the parents know about it? So how do you resolve conflicts between children?