Grandpa built an 'exclusive ski resort' for his little granddaughter in his vegetable garden. Netizens: I'm so envious!
Speaking of elders pampering children, such a thing is not new. Many parents have already felt the impact of siblings. The elders in the family dote on the child so much, they dote on her with everything, just like the prince and princess in the family. Children can feel temporary happiness in such an environment, but long-term development must have an impact on the child's growth. Love is the energy that parents give their children to grow, but pampering and doting will turn into negative energy that fights against the growth of children. Therefore, parents must make changes to their children's habits of petting.
When it comes to petting babies, the contests between many elders are stronger than each other. There is a pet grandpa on Weibo, who built a simple ski resort for the children with thick snow in order to provide entertainment for the children after snowing in winter. Grandpa slid down from the top holding his granddaughter and had a great time. I have to say that this grandfather has a great way to make his granddaughter happy. There is no lack of entertainment for the family in winter, so that granddaughter and family can feel the fun created by grandpa in winter. Many netizens said, "This is too enviable. Where can such a grandfather get it." "Grandpa loves children so much, I am so envious."
The old man's love for his children is reflected in the details and his promises to the children. Parents want to educate their children, but they are protected by elders. So how to deal with such a situation?
What everyone often sees is that children want toys but parents don't buy them, and children will play tricks and make noises in public places. Parents in such a situation will definitely stop their children, because there are already a lot of toys at home, but the elders will definitely obey their children in such a situation. When it comes to educating children, parents usually communicate well with the elderly, but when the children cry, the elderly will be overwhelmed and choose to compromise.
Crying in such a situation is the outburst of the child's emotions, which can most cause anxiety and impatience in the parents. The elderly who love the child will not let the child cry. If the child is crying, he will choose to give in, which will eventually lead to the destruction of the elders. children's education. This kind of education method is not to love children, but to be used to children. In the future, children will become more and more disobedient to discipline and have no principles and morals.
The elderly dote on their children, what should parents do?
At the age when the child "talks and doesn't listen", the elimination method can be used
During the rebellious period of the child, the parents will not listen to any reasoning, because the child's understanding ability is limited and the psychology of the rebellious period is added. So it is difficult to communicate effectively. The elimination method is that when the child buys toys indiscriminately, the parent refuses, and the child starts crying. The elimination method has no obvious effect on the child temporarily, but parents must adhere to the principle, so that the child will get rid of the problem of crying when he can't get what he wants. At the same time, parents should also make the educational philosophy of the elderly agree with themselves. Get the old man's understanding.
Empathy can be developed at the age when the child "speaks and listens"
After the child is 6 or 7 years old, he begins to absorb the words of the parents. At this time, the parents can try to reason with the child, understand it with reason, and move it with emotion, so that the child can understand some truths in life and relationships. Children will self-reflect, understand, and choose to be obedient. As long as the child can understand the truth of the parents, the child will have empathy in the pure heart, and there is no need for the parents to argue or even beat and scold.
Educate children to be both soft and hard, and to be gentle with children, but the principle of parents must be firm. Parents should unite with the elderly and aim to educate their children well.