The cute baby 'talked back' to his father, every sentence hit the point, netizens: No matter what is wrong or right, the momentum cannot be lost

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It is indeed a very happy thing for parents to hear their children talk, but if it is time for the children to talk back to themselves, then the parents will be very angry, and most of the children will talk to their parents at a certain age Talking back, this is also a very common phenomenon.

Many parents think that children will talk back because they have reached the stage of rebellion or adolescence. However, sometimes parents do not expect that the child may start to talk back to parents in the next few months, but sometimes the parents do not realize it. But The parents in this video quickly realized that the children were reasoning with themselves, and every sentence was on point. The child in the video is only about a few months old. Although he can’t speak very clearly, his voice is louder. Therefore, when he confronts his father, he can still hear the child’s voice very clearly. In the video, the father and the child are sitting opposite each other. Then, the father said: "I can't stand you anymore, why are you always like this", and although the child still spoke "baby language", it should be seen from the child's arrogance that the child was saying: "I will not I will do this again, I will change my father", just like this, the child will not be weak to resist when the father says a word, I have to say that this child is also very funny.

Netizens also find it very funny for such a child.

Netizen A: Haha, no matter if you are wrong or right, you cannot lose your momentum!

Netizen B: Question: Will I be beaten up if I talk to my parents like this?

Netizen C: Good guy, if only I could have this kind of momentum in arguing.

Although some people find it funny that the children in the video talk back to their parents, in fact, in real life, parents may start to lose their temper once they find their children talking back to themselves, but what parents don’t know is that children’s “talking back” may be A very good thing, and sometimes parents should encourage their children to "talk back".

1. Make parents more fair

Many times when the family has a second child, parents will always have deviations between their children. For example, they will love the second child more than the eldest child, or love the eldest child and don’t care about the second child. Such parents themselves are Those who are not aware of this matter often need the child to wake up the parents by themselves, and at this stage, the child's talking back is particularly important. Because at this time, parents' preference for children is subconscious. Sometimes they naturally think that they should take small good things for granted, but sometimes they will ignore the feelings of another child, and at this time the child's talking back will make the child Parents are aware of their own problems, and then slowly get rid of this habit with their children's reminders, which can also better promote family harmony.

2. The development of a "self"

When the child reaches the age where he can talk back, it proves that the child has his own thoughts and consciousness, and has begun to improve his personality at this time. At this time, the child wants to prove himself through some behaviors, so when the child enters adolescence When children and parents "talk back" time will become very frequent. Many parents will not understand that children who were so obedient when they were young suddenly become disobedient and rebellious. Many parents will want to correct their children. In fact, parents do not need to correct such things. Too much worry, this is because the child is going through a period of role identification, and wants to prove that he is the same as his parents by "talking back", and also wants to prove that he can take care of himself. This kind of "self" development, When the child's personality is perfected, the time to talk back to the parents will be reduced.

3. Can better communicate with parents

As mentioned above, parents are sometimes unaware of their preference for themselves, and children can express their hearts better through their children's "talking back". If the child is really wronged, he will not talk back to the parents. Therefore, when the child talks back, it will prove that what the child is talking about is his own inner real problem. Two-way communication, so that both parties can better understand their own problems, and the family will be more harmonious.

Did all the parents understand? So are you aware of the problem of children talking back?

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