The cute baby 'talked back' to her father, and the words came to the point, netizens: no matter what is wrong, you can't lose momentum

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It is indeed a very happy thing for parents to hear their children talk, but if the children talk back to them, the parents will be overwhelmed with anger, and most children will talk to their parents at a certain age. Talking back is also very common.

Many parents think that the child will talk back to the rebellious period or adolescence. However, sometimes the parents don't expect that the child may start talking back to the parents in the next few months, but sometimes the parents don't realize it, but The parents in this video quickly realized that their children were reasoning with themselves, and every sentence was on point. The child in the video is only a few months old. Although the speech is not very clear, it is better than the loud voice. Therefore, when he confronts his father, he can still hear the child's voice clearly. In the video, the father and the child are sitting opposite each other. At the same time, the father said: "I can't stand you anymore, why are you always like this", and although the child still said "baby talk", from the child's arrogant momentum, it should be seen that the child is saying: "I will not in the future. It will be like this again, and I will change the father." In this way, the father said a sentence again and again, and the child resisted without any weakness. I have to say that this child is also very funny.

Netizens are also very funny about such a child.

Netizen A: Haha, no matter if it's wrong or right, you can't lose momentum!

Netizen B: Question: Will I be beaten if I talk to my parents like this?

Netizen C: Good guy, if I quarrel, I can have this momentum.

Although some people think that the children in the video talk back to their parents, some people think it is funny, but in fact, in real life, parents may start to lose their temper once they find out that their children talk back to themselves, but what parents don’t know is that children’s “talk back” may also A good thing, and sometimes parents should encourage their children to "talk back".

1. Make parents fairer

Many times when there is a second child in the family, parents will always have deviations between their children. For example, they will love the second child more than the boss, or love the boss and have an indifferent attitude towards the second child. Such parents themselves are Those who are not aware of this matter often need the child to wake up the parents by themselves, and at this stage, the child's talk back is particularly important. Because at this time, parents' preference for children is subconscious, and sometimes they naturally think that it is right to do good things for small children, but sometimes this will ignore the other child's feelings, and at this time, the child's back talk will make Parents are aware of their own problems, and then slowly get rid of this habit in the reminder of their children, which can also better promote family harmony.

2. The development of a "self"

When the child reaches the age where he can talk back, it proves that the child already has his own thoughts and consciousness, and at this time he has begun to improve his personality. At this time, the child wants to prove himself through some behaviors, so when the child enters adolescence At times, the "talking back" time between children and parents will become very frequent. Many parents will not understand that children who were so obedient when they were young suddenly become disobedient and rebellious. Many parents will want to correct their children. In fact, parents do not need to Too much worry, this is because the child is in a role identification period and wants to prove that he is the same as the parent by "talking back", and also wants to prove that he can take care of himself, such a "self" development, When the child's personality is perfect, the time to talk back with the parents will be reduced.

3. Better communication with parents

As mentioned above, parents are sometimes unaware of their preference for themselves, and children can better express their hearts through their children's "talk back". This is because children usually have a sense of awe for their parents, so if not If the child is really wronged, he will not talk back to the parents, so when the child talks back, it will prove that the child is talking about his own inner problems. Two-way communication, so that both parties can better recognize their own problems, and the family will be more harmonious.

Do all the parents understand? So are you aware of the problem of children talking back?

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