The cute baby 'pit father' fished strawberries from the footbath for his father to eat. Netizens: Good things should be shared together

I don’t know if in everyone’s family, is the father taking care of the children or the mother taking care of the children, or whether the parents take care of the children half of the time? But in fact, more of the current situation is that mothers take care of and accompany their children, while fathers are busy all day long and have little time to accompany their children. Many fathers even think that giving children enough material conditions means loving them, but this is far from enough.

Recently, there was a video on Weibo that looked very loving. In the video, the baby moves a small bench and sits next to the sofa to wash his feet. Dad was lying on the side playing with his mobile phone. The little baby was washing his feet while eating a strawberry in his hand. But before I put it in my mouth, I accidentally dropped it into the washbasin. The little baby immediately bent down and picked up the strawberry, wiped the sleep on it, and handed it to his father. Dad didn't know anything about it, so he happily took it and put it in his mouth. The father held the strawberry in his mouth and didn't continue to play with the phone. Instead, he turned over, walked to the child with a towel, squatted down and wiped the child's feet carefully. The baby stretched out his little feet and had a happy smile on his face. After his father wiped his hands, he clapped his hands excitedly, as if applauding his father. Although this father also loves to play with mobile phones, his behavior of taking care of the baby and washing the baby's feet is still very loving and worthy of encouragement.

Netizens commented on Weibo: "If the strawberry falls, I will give it to my father. It seems that this child has often cheated on my father.", "The baby is too cute, and he is still a clever ghost!", "Baby : If you have something good, you should share it together. Haha.”

In fact, the father is with the child, no matter what he does, the child must feel happy. Many fathers have a concept that men are only responsible for making money and accompanying their children, and that is the mother's business. But only by companionship, only by investing time and energy, can we cultivate close relationships and intimate emotions. If fathers don't accompany their children, how can they ask their children to be close to themselves? According to the survey, as many as 80% of fathers spend less than one hour with their children every day, or even less. So among these fathers who accompany their children for less than an hour a day, how many of them can have a good parent-child relationship with their children? How many are not closer to the mother than the child?

The impact of father accompanying the child is not only the parent-child relationship, but also the child's growth, education and future.

There is a set of astonishing data: Someone abroad conducted a survey of 100 successful people. When talking about the reasons for their success, more than 80% of them mentioned the company and influence of their father. Children accompanied by their fathers have calmer temperaments, higher emotional intelligence, and are more likely to achieve success. And among those bad teenagers, most of them lack the company and education of their parents, which makes them lose their supposedly bright future. Parents should be the guides for children's growth, the heroes that children worship since childhood, and the role models for them to learn when they grow up. Parents may not be able to help their children academically, but their life experience, their moral character and principles will always be their children's precious wealth. But now fathers' lack of children's growth is originally a lack of part of their children's family education. Some fathers can have an influence on their children that mothers can never replace. Dads should remember that "education is the business of parents", not "education is the business of mothers".

In addition, there is another very important point: parents are the first half of the child's life, and children are the second half of the parents' life. Parents accompany their children to grow up when they are young, and when the parents are old and the children grow up, they will also take care of and accompany their parents. If the parents only gave the child money when the child was young, but never accompanied the child well. So when the children grow up, will they treat their parents in the same way? If this is the case, is the relationship between parents and children like a debt repayment relationship without the slightest warmth?

Dads work hard, but that doesn't mean they don't have time. Dads also play games and watch videos after get off work. Isn’t this time? Former U.S. President Barack Obama said that during his tenure as president, the thing he was most proud of was that he never missed a parent-teacher meeting of his children. No matter how busy he was, he would find time to accompany his children. Dads are always busy than the president of a country! Please spend time with your children. Please remember that if you miss a child's growth, you cannot make up for it.