Cute baby 'pit father' fishes strawberries from the footbath for dad to eat, netizens: good things should be shared together

I don't know whether the father takes the child or the mother takes the child, or does the parent take half of the time with the child? But in fact, more situations now are that mothers take care of their children, take care of them and accompany them, while fathers are busy all day and have little time to accompany their children. Many fathers even think that giving their children enough material conditions is to love their children, but this is far from enough.

Recently there was a video on Weibo that looked very loving. In the video, the little baby sits next to the sofa with a small bench and washes his feet. Dad was lying on the side playing on the phone. The little baby was eating with a strawberry in his hand while washing his feet. But before putting it in his mouth, he accidentally fell into the washbasin. The little baby immediately bent down and retrieved the strawberry, wiped the sleep on it, and handed it to Dad. Dad didn't know anything about all this, and took it with great joy and put it in his mouth. Dad was holding strawberries in his mouth, and he didn't continue to play with his mobile phone. Instead, it was worth turning over, walking to the child with a towel, squatting down and carefully wiping the child's feet. The baby stretched out his little feet and had a happy smile on his face. After his father wiped his hands, he clapped his hands excitedly, as if he was applauding his father. Although this father also likes to play with mobile phones, his behavior of taking care of the baby and washing the baby's feet is still very loving and worthy of encouragement.

Netizens left a message on Weibo: "If the strawberry falls, I will give it to my father. It seems that this child usually cheats his own father." : If you have good things, you should share them together. Haha.”

In fact, the father accompanies the child, no matter what he does, the child must feel happy. Many fathers have a concept that men are only responsible for making money and accompanying their children, and that is the mother's business. But only with company, and only by devoting time and energy, can we cultivate close relationships and intimacy. If fathers don't accompany their children, how can they ask their children to be close to themselves? According to the survey, up to 80% of fathers spend less than an hour with their children every day, or even less. So how many of these fathers who spend less than an hour with their children every day can have a good parent-child relationship with their children? How many children are not closer to their mothers?

The influence of fathers accompanying their children is not only in parent-child relationship, but also in children's growth, education and future.

There is a surprising set of data: someone from abroad surveyed 100 successful people. When talking about the reasons for their success, more than 80% of them mentioned the company and influence of their father. Children who are accompanied by their fathers have a calmer temperament, higher emotional intelligence, and easier achievement. And among those delinquent teenagers, most of them lacked the company and education of their parents, which made them lose their beautiful future. Parents should be the guides for their children's growth, the heroes that their children have admired since childhood, and the role models they will learn when they grow up. Parents may not be able to help their children academically, but the life experience of parents, the morals and principles of parents, will always be a valuable asset for children. But now the fathers' growth in the absence of their children is a part of the lack of family education for their children. There are some influences a father can give a child that a mother can never replace. Dads should remember that "education is for parents," not "education is for moms."

In addition, there is a very important point: parents are the first half of the child's life, and the child is the second half of the parent's life. Parents accompany their children to grow up when they are young, and when the parents are old and the children grow up, they will also take care of and accompany their parents. If parents only give money to their children when they are young, but never accompany their children well. So when children grow up, will they treat their parents in the same way? If this is the case, isn't the relationship between parents and children just like the relationship between debt and repayment, without the slightest warmth?

Dads work hard, but that doesn't mean they don't have time. Dads also play games and watch videos after get off work. Isn’t that time? Former U.S. President Barack Obama said that during his tenure as president, the proudest thing was that he never missed a parent-teacher meeting with his children. No matter how busy he was, he would take time out to accompany his children. Dads are always busy with the president of a country! Please take the time to accompany your child, please remember that the child's growth cannot be made up if it is missed.