Behind every selfish child, there is a 'servant-like' mother, see if you are
In recent years, almost every family has only one child. Every child at home is the parent's treasure. If you put it in your hand, it will be broken, and if you put it in your mouth, it will melt. The whole family revolves around the child alone. , we can often see that in a family, parents are busy doing laundry and cooking, and they can’t wait to have more hands, but the children are having fun there, and even the mother adds a lot of trouble to make every mother They all collapsed very much, but the collapse is a collapse. The mother can only ninja and still take good care of the child's daily life and will not blame the child.
Sometimes the child may suddenly cry when the mother is busy, and the mother can only put down her work to take care of the child, coaxing the child even if one day the mother suddenly can't stand it and gets angry at the child, it will not change the child's anything. Understand and be well-behaved, the child will only endlessly slap and roll, and the mother can only be defeated again, so every mother will unconsciously become the child's servant and be controlled by the child in the process of raising the child. It may be an exaggeration to use this word, but it is undeniable that many mothers have indeed put in a lot of effort on the road to make their children selfish. We will often find that today's children will not be because of you. He is grateful for what he has done, but he will take it for granted.
In real life, you can see old clansmen everywhere. Children complain that their parents can't give them a better life. They fight their parents. They don't have much ability, but they always let their parents go out to earn money. I feel sad, but recall that all children are created by their parents. The children are selfish and unfilial. It must be a problem with their parents' education. The blind doting at the beginning will lead to the miserable end today. Although the children have their own problems, But what I have to say is that there are big mistakes in the parents themselves. If there are no parents who have been spoiled since childhood, the children will not become incapable of taking care of themselves, but will be more selfish.
Therefore, it is said that nurturing children should start from the moment the child is born. When the child is young, parents can ask the child to do some housework within their ability. This will not only let the child understand the hard work of the parents, but also cultivate the child's independent ability. The key It is to cultivate children's awareness, and gradually children will gradually learn to take care of others, instead of blindly enjoying the care of others. You must know that when children are used to being taken care of by their families, they can no longer accept self-reliance, so It is said that parents should nurture their children well when they are very young, otherwise it will not be so simple for parents to intervene in older children.
Most parents feel that asking young children to take responsibility is very harmful to their children. Therefore, they do not have their own plans in advance for cultivating their children's abilities. They can only wait blindly. They always feel that when they grow up, they may It will be good, but it often backfires. When the child grows up, he becomes a little emperor. Therefore, if you want your child to learn to take responsibility, you must cultivate the child's awareness and ability from an early age. Otherwise, when the child grows up, he will only be with his parents. There is an endless confrontation between them. Parents should bow their heads to their children's bad habits. Instead, they should prevent their children from developing bad habits in a timely manner. At the same time, they should also correctly guide their children to cultivate correct consciousness and concepts. Only in this way can children be able to become a A successful person that everyone loves.