'Cochlear baby' was scared to cry when he heard the voice for the first time. Netizen: May the beauty of the world flow in your ears
For parents, every baby is a gift from God. From the day the child was born, the hearts of parents and the baby have been closely linked together, happy for the baby's happiness, and sad for the baby's sadness. But there are some parents who are more sad than ordinary parents. Because their baby is a little angel with broken wings, an apple accidentally bitten by God.
This is the case with Cochlear Babies. Although they have been bitten by God and lost their natural ability to hear the world clearly, their parents' love will always protect them, and technology will also help and change them.
Recently, there was a touching video on the Internet: the cochlear baby heard the sound when it was turned on for the first time, and the scene moved countless netizens. In the video, a baby hears for the first time with a cochlear implant. The moment he heard it just now, he was terrified. Because he had never heard a sound before, the baby was startled when he heard it suddenly, and then cried with his mouth shrunken in fear. At this time, the baby cried, but the mother finally laughed. The mother is distressed and relieved that the baby can finally listen to the world and embrace it intimately. The mother smiled and quickly wiped the baby's tears with a tissue, and gently patted the baby's back to comfort him. But my mother's mood was not calm, with a smile on her face, but there was also a faint glimmer of water when she was serious.
Netizens left messages to them one after another: "Baby doesn't cry, this is the most beautiful voice in the world.", "Baby can hear the sound of wind, rain, sea, and the sound of family members loving you. It's great!", "You Finally fully together with the world! Baby don’t cry!”, “I hope you hear a lot of good things, baby.”
With the help of technology and medical technology, cochlear babies can generally restore their hearing and achieve normal listening and speaking. But this will still leave an impact on the little mind of the child. Some parents find that their babies can listen and speak like ordinary babies, but they still can't play with the children in school. The child is very cheerful when he is with the cochlear child, but when he is with the hearing child, he will become taciturn.
In fact, for cochlear babies, their hearts are more or less inferior. Especially cochlear babies usually have a mental age slightly younger than their actual age, and their mental development is slightly later than that of their hearing peers. This will make the child a little withdrawn and shy. But it's not really a big deal. Children have different personalities. There are many children who are timid, shy, and introverted. As long as parents encourage and exercise, the baby can also become more cheerful.
How can parents help their children?
(1) Role-playing, scenario simulation
Introverted children are always afraid to communicate with children, dare not take the initiative to play with children, and join small groups of children. A large part of the reason is that the child is not mentally prepared and does not know how to do it. Therefore, it is very necessary for parents to take their children to simulate and practice. Parents can set a scene and role-play with their children. For example, parents and toys play the role of children together, you can teach children to take the initiative to greet toys with "Hello, what's your name", "Let's play together", etc., through the game's scenario suggestions, let the children know the bottom line.
⑵Read picture books together and adapt to the environment
There are many good picture books for children to read on the market. Read picture books with your child and learn while playing. Not only can you read pictures and stories in books, but you can also let children establish a basic behavior pattern through picture books. For example, you can read picture books that children play together, so that children know how to play happily and harmoniously with children, and avoid conflicts. You can also learn how to get along with teachers and classmates through the picture books on campus.
⑶ Create opportunities and encourage exchanges
If there is only practice without actual combat, this will not work. I have practiced many times in private, and I have to be able to play well when I get along with other children formally. Therefore, parents also need to create some opportunities for their children so that they can really communicate and play with the children. You can also take your children to participate in some social activities to increase your children's experiences and experience. At the same time, this can also build self-confidence for children, allowing them to adapt to interpersonal communication and express themselves bravely.
Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither is your baby's self-confidence. Parents need to spend time and patience to change their children's personality. Don't rush to force them to adapt to the new environment and force them to be extroverted, which will only make the children more disturbed. But it is not feasible to overprotect children. No matter how difficult it is, only by letting the baby take the first step can he walk better in the future. Parents accompany their children to slowly build up self-confidence, and the children's hearts will really become stronger.