'Baby Cochlear' cried for the first time when she heard the sound, netizens: May the beauty of the world flow in your ears
For parents, every baby is a gift from God. From the day the child is born, the parents' hearts are closely linked with the baby, happy for the baby's happiness, and sad for the baby's sadness. But there are some parents who are more heartbroken than the average parent. Because their baby is a little angel with broken wings, an apple accidentally bitten by God.
Cochlear babies are just that. Although they have been bitten by God and lost their natural ability to listen to the world clearly, the love of their parents will always protect them, and technology will bring them help and change.
Recently, there was a touching video on the Internet: Cochlear baby heard the sound when it was turned on for the first time, and the scene moved countless netizens. In the video, the baby hears sound for the first time with the help of a cochlear implant. The moment he heard it, he was terrified. Because I had never heard the sound before, the baby was startled when I heard it suddenly, and then shrunk its small mouth in fear and began to cry. At this time, the baby cried, but the mother finally laughed. The mother is distressed and relieved, and the baby can finally listen to the world well and hug the world intimately. The mother smiled and quickly wiped the baby's tears with a tissue, and gently patted the baby's back to comfort him. But the mother's mood is not calm, with a smile on her face, but there is also a faint light of water in seriousness.
Netizens left messages for them one after another: "Baby don't cry, this is the most beautiful voice in the world.", "Baby can listen to the sound of the wind, the rain, the sound of the sea, and the sound of your family loving you. It's so good!", "You Finally, I am completely with the world! Baby don't cry!", "I hope you hear a lot of good things, baby."
With the help of technology and medical technology, cochlear babies can generally restore their hearing and achieve normal listening and speaking. But in the end, it will still leave an impact on the child's little mind. Some parents find that their babies can listen and talk just like ordinary babies, but they still can't play with the children in school. Children are cheerful when they are with cochlear children, but they become reticent when they are with listening children.
In fact, for cochlear babies, their hearts are somewhat inferior. In particular, cochlear babies usually have a mental age slightly smaller than their actual age, and their mental development is slightly later than their hearing peers. This can make the child a little introverted and shy. But it's not really a big problem. Children have diverse personalities. There are many children who are timid, timid, and introverted. With parental encouragement and exercise, babies can also become more cheerful.
How can parents help their children?
⑴ role-playing, scenario simulation
Introverted children are always afraid to communicate with children, dare not take the initiative to play with children and join small groups of children. A large part of the reason is that the child is not mentally prepared and does not know what to do. Therefore, it is very necessary for parents to take their children to simulate and practice. Parents can set up a scene and role-play with their children. For example, parents and toys play the role of children together, and they can teach children to take the initiative to greet the toys with "Hello, what's your name", "Let's play together", etc., through the game scenario suggestions, let the children have a bottom line.
(2) Read picture books together and adapt to the environment
There are many good children's reading picture books on the market today. Read picture books with your children and learn while playing. Not only can you read the pictures and stories in the book, but also let the children establish a basic behavior pattern through the picture book. For example, you can read picture books of children playing together, so that children know how to play happily and harmoniously with children and avoid conflicts. You can also learn how to get along with teachers and classmates through picture books on campus.
(3) Create opportunities and encourage exchanges
If there is only practice and no actual combat, this will not work. I have practiced many times in private, and I should be able to play it well when I get along with other children formally. Therefore, parents should also create some opportunities for their children, so that children can really communicate and play with their children. You can also take your child to participate in some social activities to increase the child's experience and experience. At the same time, it can also build up self-confidence for children, let them adapt to interpersonal communication and express themselves bravely.
Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither is your baby's confidence. If you want to change your child's personality, parents need to spend time and patience. Don't rush to force them to adapt to the new environment. Forcing the child to be outgoing will only make the child more uneasy. But it is not feasible to overprotect children. No matter how difficult it is, only by letting the baby take the first step can he walk better in the future. Parents accompany their children to slowly build up their self-confidence, and the children's heart will be really strong.