Super cute! 2Children bought snacks in the supermarket and made change for the monitoring payment, and helped to close the door when they left
It is a basic principle to pay attention to honesty in getting along with others. Especially for children, good habits and morality are not achieved overnight, but are cultivated from an early age. The importance of cultivating children's honesty and trustworthiness is self-evident.
Recently, two little boys in Bengbu, Anhui Province received attention and likes from netizens for an honest and trustworthy video. It turned out that the video was a piece of surveillance in a supermarket. The owner of the supermarket temporarily went out that day and did not close the door. At this time, two little boys about seven or eight years old came to buy something. When they saw that there was no one in the supermarket, they first put down 20 yuan at the counter in front of the monitor when they entered the door.
Afterwards, the two went to the shelf to pick up what they wanted to buy, and then returned to the counter, obediently showing what they wanted to buy and the change to the camera. After the change was made, the two little boys left the supermarket and helped close the door before leaving.
After watching the "self-service" shopping of the two little boys, netizens praised the two little boys one after another: "Children are awesome", "Lovely, honest children, parents teach them well", "Morality and self-discipline" , thumbs up for the kids."
Integrity has always been the basic principle of getting along with other people, and it is also the embodiment of a person's quality. A person who is honest and trustworthy will be more willing to associate with him. As parents, we need to train our children to be honest and trustworthy from an early age, so what should parents do in daily life?
- Parents lead by example
Children are like a mirror of their parents. In daily life with their parents, many behaviors and habits actually come from their parents. Therefore, if parents want their children to be honest and trustworthy, and to be consistent with their words and deeds, they must first be honest and trustworthy in their daily lives, and they must be consistent with their words and deeds.
For example, if you promise to take your child to play in the park on weekends, you must go there. If you really can't go there, you must explain the situation to the child in advance, and make up for it afterwards.
And try to avoid this kind of missed appointments, so as to avoid children losing trust in parents. Parents should not think that this is a trivial matter, but they don’t know that good behavior habits and quality are established from the little things in life.
- Integrity education
Many parents usually have the habit of telling their children bedtime stories. Parents can take advantage of the process of accompanying them in person and use some educational picture books, storybooks, cartoons, etc. By reading and watching with the children, and learning the good characters of the characters in the story with the children, let the children establish a concept from an early age and learn to be honest and trustworthy.
- Let the children bear the consequences of untrustworthiness
Parents usually have to tell their children what the consequences of being dishonest will be, and warn their children that even if a lie can be fooled for a while, the truth of the matter will be discovered sooner or later, and the trust of those around them will be lost.
At the same time, parents can establish a reward and punishment mechanism with their children. If the child fulfills the agreement and is honest and trustworthy, then the parent should give encouragement in time; but if the child violates the agreement and fails to abide by the commitment, they should also let the child know what the consequences will be. bear. In addition, parents can also give corresponding punishments according to the child's attitude of admitting mistakes, such as deduction of pocket money, cleaning of housework, etc.
The purpose is not to punish the child, but to let the child know the consequences of breaking their trust and realize their own mistakes. In order to help children establish a correct view of right and wrong, learn to take responsibility.
- Meet the reasonable demands of the child
Parents want their children to be honest and trustworthy, but the reality is that many parents have a headache for their children to lie, and think carefully about the reasons why their children lie? It is nothing more than wanting to watch TV for a while, play with mobile phones for a while, eat some snacks, avoid criticism, etc. Parents should take their children's requirements seriously and listen to their children's words carefully.
When the child makes a request, analyze and discuss with the child which requirements are reasonable and which are unreasonable and tell the child the reasons. After the analysis, try to meet the child's reasonable requirements. Don't think that the child doesn't lie about big things. If you think it's small, turn one eye away. In the long run, it will only make the child more and more indulgent and form a bad character.
- Let children play more with honest friends
As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are dark. Children are pure in nature, and their character and quality are often influenced by those around them. Meng's mother's choice of neighbors is a good example. Children's nature likes to imitate and learn, so parents may wish to let their children play more with honest and trustworthy friends, and establish some models of honesty and trustworthiness for their children, so that children will naturally be well influenced.