The most unreliable father is on fire. He uses his 3-year-old daughter to cover the rain. Others hold umbrellas. I 'hit' my daughter.
When it comes to bringing the baby, the father is obviously not as careful as the mother. Even when bringing the baby, there are often some naughty people, who treat the baby as his own toy, use it as a dumbbell when exercising, and carry the Being a burden on your body... Therefore, many netizens ridiculed: Dad brings the baby, and it's good to live.
Some time ago, I saw a video shared by a mother on the Internet. The mother and her husband went out to play with their 3-year-old daughter. When they went out, the sky was clear, but when they returned home, it rained heavily. , the family did not bring an umbrella and were trapped in the car downstairs.
When the rain was a little lighter, the family planned to run home quickly, which wasn't far anyway, but what the mother didn't expect was that when the father got out of the car, he lifted his daughter over his head and let her hang on his own. Around his neck, he pulled up his daughter's clothes to keep out the rain, and then trotted all the way to the door. The 3-year-old daughter was helpless in the face of her father's unreliable behavior. She could only grab her father's back with one hand and protect her small head with the other, trying not to let the rain get wet.
Bao Mom stood aside to see Bao Dad's unreliable operation, and was stunned for a while, and then she took out her mobile phone and took a picture of the scene.
After seeing this video, netizens couldn't help but feel distressed for this daughter, how could such a father be on the stand. So they all made speeches and ridiculed that this is definitely the "most unreliable" father on the entire network. The fathers of other families are all fathers who love like a mountain, but this father is "father's love like a landslide".
But in fact, Bao's mother also said afterwards that the child's father still loves his daughter very much. This time it was purely for fun, and the daughter did not catch a cold because of it, so Bao's mother did not plan to implement the "family law". .
But the joke is still a joke, although the father and the baby sometimes seem to be less meticulous than the mother, and it seems a little unreliable, but a psychological study shows that children who lack male education usually show sentimentality and cowardice. , timid, timid, low self-esteem and withdrawn and other character disadvantages. Before the age of 12, many children regard their father as their idol. A father with a baby can not only help the mother share the pressure of parenting, but also have many benefits for the child.
- Sons are more masculine, daughters are more confident
In some families, because the baby dad is busy with work, there are not many opportunities to contact the children, and the children are brought by the baby mother. However, if this is the case for a long time and lack of fatherly love, the children are prone to crying and squeamishness.
The father is the first male contact with the child. The father's company and care, and the masculinity of the father can help the boy to develop a firm and strong character. The father's encouragement and praise can also make the daughter more confident.
- Enhance the physical fitness of children
Compared with women, men mostly prefer sports, so it is said that fathers are the enlightenment physical education teachers for most children. Babies brought by fathers, because of regular exercise, their physical fitness has been enhanced, and they are not so easy to get sick.
- Unleash your child's nature
Bao mothers are often too meticulous and perfect in parenting. This kind of care may make the baby not encounter too much difficulty, but for the baby in the exploratory learning stage, it is easy to kill the child's nature.
And Bao Dad is often informal with his baby. Although he often makes oolongs, which makes people feel unreliable, this relaxed and lively parenting method is more conducive to cultivating children's curiosity and creativity.
- Develop children's hands-on ability
Compared with the maturity of the mother, the father's "playing heart" will be larger when he brings the baby, and he prefers to play with the child. I often take the baby to make models, play with building blocks, and even let the children take care of themselves in turn. Through such interaction, children can develop their own hands-on ability.
- Make children braver
For most mothers, the safety of their children is the most important thing, and they are reluctant to let their babies try anything potentially dangerous. In this way, the child may not face any danger, but it also lacks the spirit of adventure and courage.
However, it is different for fathers with children. Dads are often more willing to try new things, and also willing to let children learn to try and take appropriate risks, and then avoid danger in time. Learning to experiment and take risks in moderation is also an important way to learn.
- Children have higher IQ
A study by Yale University in the United States shows that children brought up by fathers have higher IQs, tend to have better grades in school, and are more likely to succeed in society in the future.