The most unreliable dad became popular. He used his 3-year-old daughter to cover the rain. Others held umbrellas. I 'beat' my daughter
When it comes to father raising the baby, he is obviously not as careful as his mother. Even when raising the baby, he often has some mischievous behaviors, treating the baby as his own toy, using it as a dumbbell when exercising, and carrying it on his back when running. The body is a heavy burden... so many netizens ridiculed: Dad takes the baby, just live.
Some time ago, I saw a video shared by a mother on the Internet. The mother and her husband took their 3-year-old daughter out to play. When they went out, the sky was still clear, but when they returned home, it started to rain heavily. , the family did not bring an umbrella and was trapped in the car downstairs.
When the rain was lighter, the family planned to run home quickly, which was not too far away anyway, but to the mother's surprise, the father lifted his daughter over his head when he got out of the car, and let the daughter hang on his car. neck, pulled up her daughter's clothes and used them to keep out the rain, and then trotted all the way to the house. The 3-year-old daughter is also very helpless in the face of her father's unreliable behavior. She can only hold her father's back with one hand and protect her little head with the other, trying not to let the rain get wet.
Bao Ma was stunned when she saw Bao Bao's unreliable operation, and then took out her mobile phone to take a picture of this scene dumbfounded.
Netizens couldn't help but feel sorry for the daughter after seeing this video, why did she have such a dad. So one after another spoke and ridiculed that this is definitely the "most unreliable" dad on the entire network. Other dads are like a mountain of fatherly love, but this dad is "like a landslide of fatherly love".
But in fact, Bao's mother also said afterwards that the child's father still loves her daughter very much. This time it was purely for fun, and the daughter did not catch a cold because of it, so Bao's mother did not plan to implement the "family law" .
But ridicule is ridicule. Although fathers sometimes seem to be less nuanced than mothers when they bring babies, it seems a bit unreliable, but psychological studies have shown that children who lack male education usually show sentimentality and cowardly personality. , Timid and afraid of getting into trouble, low self-esteem and withdrawn and other character disadvantages. And many children regard their father as their idol before the age of 12. Fathers with babies can not only help mothers share the pressure of parenting, but also have many benefits for children.
- Sons are more masculine and daughters are more confident
In some families, due to the busy work of the father, there are not many opportunities to contact the children, and the children are taken by the mother. But if this is the case for a long time, without the love of the father, the children will tend to cry and be coquettish.
Dad is the first man a child comes into contact with. Dad's company and care, and the masculinity of the father can help boys develop a resolute and strong character. The father's encouragement and praise can also make the daughter more confident.
- Enhance children's physical fitness
Compared with women, most men prefer sports, so dad is the first physical education teacher for most children. The baby brought up by the father has improved physical fitness due to regular exercise, and is less prone to illness.
- Release the child's nature
Baoma is often too meticulous and pursues perfection in parenting. This kind of care may prevent the baby from encountering too many difficulties, but for babies who are in the stage of exploration and learning, it is easy to kill the child's nature.
And Bao’s father is often careless in raising children. Although he often makes oolongs and makes people feel unreliable, this relaxed and lively parenting method is more conducive to cultivating children’s curiosity and creativity.
- Cultivate children's hands-on ability
Compared with the maturity of the mother, the father will be more "playful" when raising the baby, and he prefers to play with the child. I often take the baby to make models, play with building blocks, and even let the baby take care of itself. Through such interaction, children can better develop their hands-on ability.
- Make children braver
For most mothers, the safety of their children is the most important thing, and they are reluctant to let their babies try anything that is potentially dangerous. In this way, the child may not face any danger, but he also lacks the spirit of adventure and is not brave enough.
But fathers are different with their children. Fathers are often more willing to try new things, and they are also willing to let their children learn to try and take moderate risks, and then avoid danger in time. Learning to try and take moderate risks is also one of the important ways to learn.
- Children have higher IQs
A research result from Yale University in the United States shows that children raised by fathers have higher IQs, their grades in school are often better, and they are more likely to succeed in society in the future.