The 1.8-meter strong man cried on the spot when he accompanied his wife to give birth to a child, which impressed the obstetrician and gynecologist
For us Chinese, having a child is definitely the top priority of the family, and the family is busy waiting for the birth of the child. However, many mothers-to-be have experienced various nausea, nausea, vomiting, various size examinations, and pubic pain during pregnancy after a long ten months of pregnancy, but when they are about to give birth at the end, they have anxiety and even anxiety.
This is because, even though we usually say that giving birth to a child is a matter of two people, at the real juncture of life and death, the mother-to-be goes to the "battlefield" alone. Many mothers-to-be think, it would be great if my husband could accompany me into the delivery room and accompany me when I gave birth.
Not long ago, a Red Cross hospital in Nanning, Guangxi announced the implementation of "accompanying childbirth". The prospective father is not only allowed to accompany his wife in the delivery room, but also can cut the umbilical cord for his baby under the guidance of the midwife. As soon as this news came out, it was immediately favored by the majority of young people.
The reporter interviewed a new mother who had experienced accompanying childbirth. She told the reporter that the process of childbirth was really painful, and she felt like she wanted to die, but she was not so nervous when she saw her husband by her side. Like seeing a life-saving straw, no matter what it is, I have the courage to face it.
The husband, who has just been upgraded to a new father, said that his wife must be accompanied during childbirth, not to mention that this is the first child. Give her a little strength, so that she will be less stressed and less nervous.
Another mother of the second child who was interviewed said that when she gave birth to the first child, she held the hand of the midwife, and when she gave birth to the second child, she held the hand of her husband. She may not feel anything when she usually holds her left hand and her right hand, but Holding hands during childbirth warmed her heart and felt the deep love.
The obstetrician at the hospital also said in an interview with reporters that she was particularly impressed by one case of accompanying childbirth. This is a 1.8-meter burly man who accompanied his wife to give birth. When he saw the baby's first cry when he heard the baby's first cry, he also cried out "wow". The obstetrician saw Tiehan also had a tender side.
Since the hospital proposed this special service, in a short period of time, there have been more than 30 couples who have experienced childbirth, and most of them are "post-90s" parents.
Needless to say, the benefits of accompanying delivery are of course no need to say. The company of the husband can not only eliminate the loneliness of the mother, relieve tension and pressure, so that she can maintain a good mental state during the whole delivery process, enhance the confidence of natural delivery, and promote effective uterine contractions. , to speed up the labor process, reduce maternal and infant intrapartum and postpartum complications.
At the same time, the husband's accompaniment in childbirth is also more likely to enhance the relationship between the husband and wife, allowing the husband to enter the role of a father more quickly. After giving birth, the husband can also better understand the wife's contribution and enhance the sense of family responsibility. This is actually an expression of love for our new generation of young couples.
However, not every husband can accompany childbirth.
On the one hand, the scene of childbirth is very bloody, and some side cuts, tears, etc., are not acceptable to everyone, which will increase the fear of male companions.
On the other hand, when the husband appears in the delivery room and the mother becomes dependent, she may become more vulnerable psychologically, which is not conducive to production.
A survey by a health care institution in Japan found that about 50% of men experience varying degrees of psychological pressure after accompanying delivery, and some men even experience physical disorders.
In fact, expectant fathers who can't accompany their wives to give birth don't have to blame themselves too much. We can still express our love in other ways.
- Prepare baby products with your wife during pregnancy
During the pregnancy of expectant mothers, expectant fathers can discuss with their wives the daily necessities of future babies, such as baby cribs, sheets, quilts, sleeping bags, etc., which can be selected in advance. purchase.
In the process of discussing with his wife, in fact, the happiness of the mother-to-be has been invisibly enhanced, the hope of the mother-to-be for the future baby has been strengthened, and the belief in the heart will be stronger.
- Prepare the package to be delivered
Usually around 7-8 months of gestation, you can start preparing the maternity pack.
The maternity bag should contain the items that the mother and the baby need. It is recommended that prospective fathers make a list so as not to miss anything, ranging from the mother's split pajamas to the baby's bottle brush. These should be taken into account. Don't rush to prepare these things when you're about to give birth.
Of course, many hospitals now have mandatory/voluntary maternity kits, and some items are also included. Expectant fathers can understand clearly before buying them, so as to avoid repeated purchases.
- Get to know the maternity hospital and prepare the information package
When an expectant mother chooses a maternity hospital, this hospital will become your "battlefield". Of course, it is necessary to know the situation of the hospital, including its geographical location, various environmental facilities, and maternity procedures.
In addition, some documents must be prepared in advance. When you go to give birth to a child, you need to apply for a birth certificate. Generally speaking, it will be used when you are admitted to the hospital. Specifically: parents' own ID cards, birth certificates, copies of original household registration books, medical insurance cards, and birth inspection records.
- Fully communicate with the doctor
For the expectant fathers and expectant mothers of the first child, many conditions of the birth must be unknown. What kind of delivery method to choose, whether to cut along or not, can it not be cut laterally, how to deal with the placenta after delivery... These series of issues need to be communicated effectively with the doctor in advance.
In fact, when it comes to actual delivery, whether to give birth naturally or by caesarean section, whether to do a lateral incision or not, you still need to listen to the doctor. The doctor will comprehensively consider the maternal position, fetal size, pelvic size and other physical conditions.
- Do a good job in logistical support after the baby is born
The logistics support after the baby is born is also very important, and arrangements must be made in advance. Who will take care of the baby, who will take care of the new mother, who will take care of the three meals a day, etc. must be arranged. After all, both mothers and babies need people to take care of them. If there is no careful division of labor, everyone will be in chaos.
Well, the above is a general summary of some preparations that the husband should do when the mother gives birth. Prospective fathers and mothers can collect them for reference. If you have any better methods, you can also share them with us in the comment area. If you are a prospective mother Dad, will you give birth with your wife?