What's the difference before and after having a baby? The difference between 'seller show' and 'buyer show' can't bear to look directly at it
Before every shopping, you have to check the reviews first, especially to watch some buyer shows, but many times, after you click on the buyer's show, you regret it. No matter how much you like this dress at first, after watching the buyer's show, you will The intention to buy is gone, and the buyer's show and the seller's show are simply worlds apart.
Some netizens used such a precise metaphor to express the changes of women after giving birth: before giving birth, it was a "buyer show", and after giving birth, it became a "seller show", with a baby in the middle, as if there were several lines. An insurmountable chasm.
mothers who have given birth
Xiao Ling is a standard beauty. When she didn't have children, she was definitely at the school beauty level. Everyone joked that her husband must be spoiled, otherwise Ling would get angry and chase after her in groups.
Her husband just smiled and said one sentence: Then let her have a child.
Later, I really gave birth to a child. After the child was born, my image really collapsed. I gained more than ten pounds of flesh. I used to not go out without makeup, but now I don’t comb my hair. The first time we met after giving birth, we all began to sympathize with her. We thought that the goddess would be an accident, but it turned out that everyone was the same.
As long as you pay too much attention, the ending is one, from goddess to aunt.
Another friend said that she is not as delicate as Xiao Ling before she gave birth, but she is also a beauty. After she gave birth, she complained to the sisters countless times: If she had known that this would be the case, she would not have children, it was too tiring. , I have a serious lack of sleep, I always feel that I will die, and there seems to be no deadline for this matter. I will not be liberated until the child grows up, but when will the child grow up?
When she said this, the child was only 7 months old. "Growing up" is really too far away, just think about it.
And when the child really grows up, other troubles will come again.
Common Traits of Sloppy Moms
In fact, many times, after giving birth to a child, it becomes sloppy and the image collapses. It is mainly related to the individual. These mothers are easy to take this road:
- All kinds of worries
Today's young mothers, after giving birth, the mother-in-law or mother is willing to help take care of the child, but the mother herself is not at ease, thinking that the concept of the elderly taking the child is too old-fashioned, which is not conducive to the growth of the child, and must insist on bringing it by yourself.
Never expect your child's father to help. Facts have proved that many men are "trash", they have a thousand reasons for refusing to bring a baby with you, all the burden falls on one person.
- I am lazy
It is still possible to be an exquisite mother. Those mothers whose image collapsed in the end are not without time, but after being "tortured" by the baby, they have no heart, so they just want to lie still and don't think about dressing themselves at all. .
- Poor time planning ability
I have seen the process of a Japanese mother bringing her baby. From the beginning to the end, she brought the baby by herself, but she can not only take care of the baby, but also do the housework well, and she is always beautiful.
You must know that Japan's housework is the most onerous in the world, and Japanese housewives have very high requirements for Japanese housework.
Relying on her super time planning ability, this Japanese mother managed everything very well and still had time to go out to parties.
How can I be a good mother?
It's not difficult to be a good mother.
- Let the old man help with the child
It doesn't matter that the old people's parenting concept is old-fashioned, we can sit down and teach patiently, the old people will gradually improve, their concepts are old-fashioned, that is because there is no new concept for them to contact, and once contacted, they will gradually improve. .
This allows mothers to also enter the workforce and avoid being a stay-at-home mom.
- Maintain good living habits
Wanting to be an exquisite mother is just a matter of attitude. If a mother maintains good living habits and still demands herself as strictly as before, of course she can be an exquisite mother.
- Own your job
Don't let yourself become a full-time mother, this is a pit, if a woman loses her job and has no income, you will find that if you want to be refined, you will not be able to be refined, then consumption will be limited, and you will often have to look at each other's faces .
To be an exquisite mother, in conclusion, you have good living habits, strong self-control, strong time planning ability, and your own income.