The mother gave birth to a 'white-haired girl', the mother-in-law was furious and asked her son to divorce, the son: another one is still like this
Every parent hopes to give birth to a healthy baby. However, some things are really beyond the control of the outside world. When things happen, the most pitiful thing is the child himself.
Xiao Zhang (pseudonym) and her husband met through someone else's introduction. Xiao Zhang is very honest. Seeing that her husband treats him very well, he agreed to marry him at that time. After getting married, her mother-in-law kept urging Xiao Zhang to have a child. Under the urging of her mother-in-law, Xiao Zhang soon became pregnant.
During the pregnancy, Xiao Zhang's husband was very kind to Xiao Zhang, and throughout the pregnancy, Xiao Zhang was also very happy. Soon, the due date came, and Xiao Zhang also reacted to having a baby. The whole family couldn't wait to come to the hospital.
Finally, after 6 hours of painful struggle, Xiao Zhang finally gave birth to a daughter. However, to the surprise of the whole family, the child born by Xiao Zhang has a head of white hair!
When the mother-in-law saw such a child, her face darkened immediately. She felt that Xiao Zhang gave birth to an unlucky child, so she turned around in the hospital and left. However, Xiao Zhang's husband knew that all this was not Xiao Zhang's fault, because the husband's uncle was in such a situation, and it was their family's genetic inheritance, which was congenital albinism.
Back home, the mother-in-law asked her son to divorce Xiao Zhang. The son repeatedly explained to his mother-in-law that the mother-in-law felt that Xiao Zhang was unlucky. At this time, the son had no choice, so he simply said, "Find another one after divorce, and the child born is still like this. This is a problem with our family's genes, don't you know?" The mother-in-law didn't speak anymore.
In fact, sometimes, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law arises because the son does not have a good grasp of the relationship between the two people, which makes the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law aggravate.
In order to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, family members should pay attention to these points.
- The son must not speak for the mother
When two people get married, the daughter-in-law needs to live at the mother-in-law's house. At this time, only the daughter-in-law is not related to the family by blood. The son should pay attention. When there is a conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, don't stand on his mother's side.
Otherwise, the daughter-in-law will feel that the whole family is attacking her, the daughter-in-law's heart will be cold, and family conflicts will intensify.
- Mutual understanding
In fact, when a problem occurs, everyone has their own difficulties. From everyone's point of view, they will feel that this person is not wrong. At this time, it is necessary for everyone to understand each other. Only when each other is considerate of each other can the final problem be solved better. Otherwise, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will only evolve into family conflict, and in the end, everyone will not get what they want.
- Daughter-in-law should not treat mother-in-law as mother
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Whether they are mother-in-law or daughter-in-law, they should be clearly aware of this. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be like that of mother-daughter relationship. Because the mother and daughter are related by blood, although there is a little conflict, the two may forget the conflict at that time the next day.
However, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are different. Once there is a conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, there will be knots in their hearts. Even if they are reconciled in the future, there will be shadows on each other's psychology. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must pay attention.
The health of children is the most concerned issue for parents, but genetic factors are beyond our control. After the child is born, no matter whether it is healthy or not, I hope that the family can give the child enough care and love.
During pregnancy, pregnant women must not forget these two things.
- Timely inspection
Some people may think that even though it is an obstetric examination, there may be some problems that cannot be found out, so they do not go to the obstetric examination with a gamble mentality. Pregnant women must not have such thoughts. The obstetric examination is to ensure the health of the child. Parents must not take chances. Once something bad happens in the future, it will be too late for parents to regret it.
- Maintain good living habits
During pregnancy, pregnant women are most concerned about the condition of the fetus in the womb. Therefore, for the sake of the health of the fetus, pregnant women must not have bad living habits, such as smoking and drinking, which are very harmful to the fetus, and parents must pay attention.