The day of actually filming 'Chinese Grandma' is much more tiring than that of 'office workers', netizens: children are too unfilial
With the country's opening up of the two-child policy, many parents have chosen to have a second child in order to achieve the wish of "having both children". But in this way, the pressure on parents is much greater, because there are two children who need to be nurtured and educated. If there is not enough money, time and energy to support, parents cannot bear it.
In order to reduce their own pressure, many children will ask the elderly at home to help with the baby, so that they can devote themselves to earning money to support the family. In this way, the task of raising the children falls on the head of the elderly.
The day of filming "Chinese Grandma" is too hard
- After getting up in the morning, grandma must go to the morning market, and go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, fruit, and things that will be used for the day.
- After shopping and going home, the child has woken up. The grandmother not only has to dress and wash the child, but also feed the child, so she is very busy.
- After breakfast, all the young people in the family went to work, leaving only the children and grandma. In order to prevent the child from being bored out, the grandmother also took the child to go shopping in the community and the park to relax.
In the afternoon, the baby has to take a nap and have a good rest. The task of the grandmother is to coax the child to sleep. However, parents who have gone through this step know that this process is not easy. When encountering a child who is a little noisy, it takes a long time to coax him to fall asleep, which is really exhausting.
It's almost time to get off work. Grandma not only has to take care of the baby, but also prepare dinner. This kind of dual-purpose thing is not easy, look, the meal is ready, this grandma is looking at the figure of her daughter and son-in-law by the window!
After dinner, the child cannot sleep immediately, nor can he fall asleep. At this time, the task of the grandmother is to play with the child and consume the child's excess energy, while the daughter and son-in-law are just watching and laughing, and the tired grandma is alone...
After watching a day of Chinese grandma, do you feel that it is particularly hard? Some netizens said that they usually only feel that work is hard and tired, but now they know that the old people at home are even more tired! Some netizens also said that children are too unfilial. Your parents dragged you to grow up, and now you are also responsible for dragging your children to grow up. It really shouldn't be! Do you agree with these views?
Why is the phenomenon of "old people bringing babies" more and more?
- Children are too busy
The current social competition is too strong, and the financial pressure of young parents is too great. There are car loans, mortgage loans, and children to support. If it is a second-child family, it will be even more troublesome. Therefore, young parents may not have much time and energy to take care of their children themselves. In this case, it is possible to ask the old man who is not busy at home to help with the baby, and the old man did not refuse out of affection.
- The elderly feel sorry for their children
In fact, according to the law, the elderly have the responsibility to bring up their children, but they have no obligation to help their children raise them. They have nothing to do.
But why do many old people nod in agreement? In the final analysis, it is because I feel sorry for the child and do not want the child to work too hard, so I take the initiative to take responsibility for the child.
It is too hard for the elderly to take care of their children. How should children repay their parents?
- Appropriately share the burden for parents
It doesn't mean that the old man promises to take care of the baby for you, so you can be the shopkeeper and don't care about anything. This is too selfish! After all, that's your child, isn't it?
Therefore, it is okay to ask the elderly to bring the baby, but at least before and after get off work, you must know how to share the burden for your parents, and you must do what you need to do yourself.
- Be less picky
Parents help you to take care of your baby is a love, not a duty, so even if your parents do not like you or make a little mistake, as a child, you should not blame or even criticize your parents. If you have the ability to take care of it yourself, ask someone else to help you take care of the child, so don’t be rude, and no one else owes you anything!”
- Be nice to your parents
After all, parents are getting older and their health is getting worse and worse. As children, they should repay their parents' kindness. Be kind to your parents in life and give them a better material life. In addition, pay more attention to your parents' psychology and don't make them sad.