Daddy is acting like a spoiled child, and the cute baby is completely stunned: I let you act in the play, what else can I do?

Every child will experience countless moments in the process of growing up, and the child's character is deeply affected by these countless moments.

Different parents have different ways of treating their children, different ways of guiding their children, different final characters of children, different choices in life, and different life forms of children.

People's living standards have improved, and the forms of children's education have become more and more diverse.

Dad's "coquette" style parenting, the effect is very good

Usually, when parents educate their children, they are in a high-to-low attitude, either mild or severe. No matter what kind of education method, the intuitive feeling is of course that adults educate their children. Common sense played a card, he put away the "dignity" of being a father, acted like a spoiled child in front of the child, and asked the child to help, but the child's performance was exceptionally good.

The father imitated the child's appearance and acted like a spoiled child. The child was embarrassed for a while.

Dad asked the baby to help with the toilet paper, and the baby was happy to get it. After using it, the baby was asked to throw the paper into the trash can. The baby did everything and seemed to be very happy to help.

Netizens couldn't help but complain when they saw this scene: You have already acted in the play, what else can a child do?

However, this behavior of my father has also been supported by the majority of netizens. This education method is completely different from the traditional education method of parents scolding children. This education method is very effective, and the children are very willing to serve.

From a different angle and a different way of education, you may be able to gain more

A parent should look like a parent, and the parent's posture in front of them is often a high ground, which is the norm in most families.

But in terms of educating children, if we change the angle, it might not be a good way.

Take the father in the above case as an example, the advantages of such an education method are as follows:

Helps to cultivate children's independence If parents educate their children in such a manner, they expect children to help in everything, which is very helpful to cultivate children's independence.

Many of our parents often dislike children's poor hands-on ability, because we don't give children the opportunity to do things, and children are willing to help their parents to do something when their hands-on ability is poor. We should encourage children to do things, rather than dislike children getting in the way.

Children become obedient and sensible When we "seek" children, children will become very sensible and obedient, and their energy will be transferred to helping their parents do things, although their help is not really meant for adults. What convenience is provided, but the process is satisfying for them.

We might as well try to educate children in this way and give them ample opportunities to express themselves.

Help to cultivate children's organization Often let children help to do some things within their ability, help to cultivate children's organization, in the long run, but also help to cultivate children's self-discipline.

The best education is a little letting go

The way of "acting coquettish" with the child is just a transition period. After the child is one year old, the behavioral ability gradually enriches, and the child will be willing to try his new "special ability". At this time, parents should try to let go a little bit and let the child Solve your own problems by yourself, and at the same time guide children to help parents to solve some things within their ability, children will be very willing to help and enjoy it.

We often say that it is very easy to love a child, which is the instinct of mothers, but learn to let go. When the child falls, it is the hardest to watch the child stand up by himself. For parents, The hardest part is trying to let go.

However, only when we learn to let go, can children have the opportunity to grow up little by little, and have the opportunity to slowly become independent.

The best education is not that we have to spend all our time and energy to help children take care of everything and solve all difficulties for them. The best education must be that parents watch their children grow up slowly.

If the parents let go, the child will grow up. If the parents have been in charge, the child will lose an independent life after entering the society.