The 'hardcore hot mom' in the Northeast became popular with her baby, and she relied on her aura to restrain her daughter. Netizens sighed with emotion: I can't learn it
The "hardcore hot mom" in the Northeast became popular with her baby, and she relied on her aura to restrain her daughter. Netizens sighed with emotion: I can't learn it
Recently, a video has been circulating on the Internet. In the video, a Northeast "hardcore hot mother" is taking her baby online for class. The domineering way of education has attracted the attention of many netizens.
It turned out that there were two mobile phones in front of the mother and daughter, and the little girl sat upright, motionless, with two small hands placed in an orderly manner, sitting obediently in the seat to take an online class, but her mother was holding a beer in one hand and leaning on the bench with the other. , watching the phone screen while eating snacks, this domineering sitting posture makes the mother and daughter form a sharp contrast.
The little girl's eyes didn't move, she looked straight ahead, and she could see that she was very nervous under the pressure of her mother's aura, for fear that she would be found by her mother not to listen to the class carefully.
In this regard, some netizens said it was too funny when they saw this scene, the little girl must be thinking in her heart: I dare not move, I dare not move. After all, such a domineering mother, how dare you not be serious.
Indeed, during the epidemic, it has become the norm for parents to accompany their children to take online classes at home, and many parents have come up with a killer tool to solve the problem of children's inattentiveness in online classes.
analyze
This ''hard-core hot mother'' from Northeast educates her child to be obedient and obedient, so that she does not dare to move, and obediently takes online classes, but although the child is in class, the forced education may make the child absent-minded, so much that The effect of absorbing knowledge is not achieved.
Gentle education is more acceptable to children
For many children, forced education will destroy their mood, and even make them feel conflicted and unwilling to listen to their parents' suggestions, so parents can fully understand their children's thoughts, choose a gentle education method, and make children happy study.
The impact of ''hard core'' with a baby on children:
1. Children's learning initiative declines
The mother's "hard core" is really domineering and worthy of recognition, but for children, this kind of high pressure is not suitable for their learning, it will reduce their initiative in learning, and they are always under the supervision and coercion of others. Gain knowledge and gradually lose interest in learning.
2. Children are prone to rebellion
Little girls are more obedient under ''high pressure'', but little boys are not necessarily so. Many little boys are reluctant to accept forced education, thinking that it is wrong for their parents to force him to do things he doesn't like. Even if he realizes that he has to take online lessons seriously, children with a rebellious mentality are more motivated.
How parents can properly educate their children
1. Be patient enough to communicate peacefully with your child
Educating children is a very brain-intensive and energy-intensive thing, so parents still need to communicate more with their children, maintain enough patience, don’t lose their temper at every turn, and use gentle education methods and speaking methods to let children accept their own ideas .
2. Clear rewards and punishments, strict requirements for children
When children are unwilling to study hard, parents can use the reward incentive system to stimulate children's interest in learning, but pay attention to clear rewards and punishments, that is, children cannot get rewards if they fail to achieve the set goals. In fact, strict requirements for children are also for him to have a more self-disciplined future.
3. Pay attention to words and deeds, and give positive guidance to children
In fact, the mother's sitting posture in the article may be misleading to the child, making the child think that he can be like a mother, so parents should pay attention to their words and deeds, and give the child as much as possible when the child lacks judgment. Correct guidance and be a good example.
Summarize
In fact, there is a little helplessness behind the ''hard-core'' raising a baby, and this is also worthwhile for parents to reflect on their own education methods, so that children are willing to learn actively, rather than accept forced education. I hope that parents and children can accumulate experience and make progress together!