After thinking about the name of the child for a night, I typed one more word on the account. After reading it, Bao Dad: No change.
Recently, I saw such a news on the Internet. A couple gave birth to a son. The whole family was very happy. They prepared to give the child a good name early. It was decided to name the child ''Qing Lan''.
Soon, the child needed to be registered. The couple took the household registration book to the household registration office. There were many people registering the child with a household registration, and everyone had a happy smile on their faces.
Although the two went very early, there was still a long queue. After waiting for a while, they finally got it. They were very excited. They hurriedly opened the hot book and found that the child's name was on the account book. The staff typed one more word and typed ''Qing Lan'' into ''Qing Yu Lan''.
I thought that the parents would find the staff very much to ask for correction, but Bao Dad's reaction was unexpected. After Bao Dad saw the baby's ''new name'', he was not annoyed, saying: "Blue is better than blue, which is a good implication." , just it, do not change.
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Naming your child is important
Names are unique to everyone. No matter what the circumstances are, names are the first channel for others to understand themselves. Simple, elegant or more exotic names will make people feel different about you. impression.
Therefore, often before the child is born, parents will look up various information in advance to prepare a beautiful gift for the child-name, we will want to give the child a name that is both beautiful and full of meaning, hoping that it will give the child a gift best wishes.
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How does a strange name affect a child?
May become the laughing point of others and affect the child's self-confidence
If the child's name is funny or the homonym is funny, then this may become a laughing point for some classmates and friends, and they will make fun of it as a joke.
On the surface, everyone is happy and it is over, but in fact, it may have a greater lethality for the parties involved, especially children, facing the ridicule of classmates, it may be difficult to digest for a while, and over time, it is likely to affect Their psychology makes them less confident.
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What aspects should parents pay attention to when naming a baby?
- You can choose meaningful ones, but don’t put too much pressure on children with names
Every parent's love for their children can be reflected in all aspects of daily life, and the meaning of the name will certainly not be missing. We all hope that the child will have a bright future and grow up happily and healthily. There is no doubt about the name. Become synonymous with this beautiful meaning.
Of course, we need to avoid names that are too connotative and stressful for children.
2. According to the uniqueness of the child, tailor the name for the child
If parents have no idea what kind of name to give their children for the time being, they can try to carefully observe the children's hobbies and characteristics in daily life.
Taking this as a reference, choose a name that is more suitable for them. There are many beautiful poems in Chinese culture, and it is undoubtedly a good way to choose a name that suits them.
3. Avoid derogatory words
When naming a child, we need to pay attention to avoid using some indecent or unlucky words, especially words with homonyms and derogatory meanings, otherwise the children may be ridiculed.
There are some children with very strange names on the Internet, such as Du Ziteng (stomach pain), Zeng Taoyan (really disgusting), etc., which makes people laugh, and it is especially easy to hurt children's young minds.
4. Avoid using the same words as your elders
Parents try to avoid the name of their child and the elders in the family when naming their children, otherwise it may be misunderstood as disrespecting the elders.
Conclusion: Parents often pay attention to their children's names because of their deep love for their children and their sustenance for their children's good wishes. Therefore, parents should better grasp the child's name and avoid using bad words.