The 14-year-old black girl became popular, and she looked amazing on the Internet. Netizens: It turns out that I am not ugly because of dark skin
With the development of society and the changes of the times, people nowadays pay more and more attention to the pursuit of beauty, and gradually become a society that sees faces. In this era of "appearance is justice", many people want to improve their appearance, and facial features and skin tone have become an important part. Many people equate ''black skin'' with ''ugly'', is that really true?
The 14-year-old black girl became popular, and she looked amazing on the Internet. Netizens: It turns out that I am not ugly because of dark skin:
Some time ago, a photo of an African woman circulated on the Internet, which attracted the attention of the majority of netizens. The African woman's complexion is very dark, but her facial features are very delicate. With big eyes, a high nose bridge, and a delicate mouth, the combination is a complete beauty, and her beauty is not affected by her skin color at all.
This lady not only looks exquisite and beautiful, but also has a very good figure, and even knows how to dress well, a proper temperament beauty. Not only that, but the reason why people admire her is because looking at her photos, you can feel her confidence, and confident people are very beautiful.
Many netizens said after reading it: ''It turns out that I am not ugly because I have dark skin'', ''Skin color really can't affect a person's beauty'', ''the most beautiful black girl''...
What impact will advocating ''face value is justice'' bring to children?
Now there are many children who start their own ''image management'' early in order to increase their appearance. But what are the effects of premature attention on this aspect of the child?
1: Children who are overly advocating for appearance will become unconfident.
Everyone's appearance is determined by birth, but there will always be some children who want to become more beautiful, and then pay too much attention to their appearance, and excessively pursue the improvement of appearance, which can easily make a child become unattractive. confidence. Being overly concerned with your appearance is a sign of lack of confidence.
2: It will affect other aspects of the child's life.
If a child pays too much attention to his appearance, it will affect his growth in other areas, and his study and life will be affected to varying degrees. Insufficient internal training and excessive pursuit of praise on the outside will affect the healthy development of children. Even if the appearance is beautiful, it is still an empty shell. However, the affected study and life cannot be recovered overnight.
Parents' education in terms of appearance can not be less:
1: Let children establish self-confidence is far more important than appearance.
In this era when appearance is justice, many children are biased by the so-called appearance association, but it should be known that it is far more important for a person to establish a good sense of self-confidence and become a good person than to care about appearance. Your appearance can make others pay more attention to you, but only inner self-confidence can attract others to pay more attention to you.
2: Let children understand that beauty in mind is more important than beauty in appearance.
Appearance is very important to everyone, but inner beauty cannot be lacking. Cultivate more children's spiritual beauty, so as to allow children to grow up in a more healthy psychological state. If the child pursues the appearance of beauty excessively, he will lose the desire to cultivate the inner beauty, which will affect the shaping of the child's personality.
Summary: A person's beauty does not depend only on her appearance, but through her temperament and excellent qualities to judge whether this person is a beautiful person. For the healthy growth of children, while beautifying their children's appearance, parents can't ignore the inner cultivation of their children!