The younger sister acted coquettishly to the elder brother in the mall, and the mother took a closer look, the expression on the face of the elder brother was so interesting
If you want to ask where the coolest place is in summer, it is naturally a shopping mall. If you want to say where the most people are, it is of course a shopping mall. The most pleasant time is nothing more than when I have nothing to do, and I go shopping with my closest family and friends. Sometimes although there are relatively few things to buy, it is also a good experience to see a lot of interesting people and things.
No, I recently saw such a particularly touching scene in the mall for my mother:
A little girl with a ponytail and a purple coat kept walking behind her brother. Maybe it was because I was tired after shopping for a long time, so I ran a few steps and hugged my brother's leg. After the brother turned his head, the little girl opened her arms naturally.
Bao Ma took a closer look. Although the brother's face was reluctant, he actually picked up his sister very quickly. The two brothers and sisters' fierce and sweet expressions were also very interesting. Moreover, the passers-by around the brother and sister were warmed by the performance of this brother. While giving a thumbs up to the little brother's actions, he sighed "it's nice to have a brother". In fact, helping my mother feel that it is a very happy thing to have companionship and take care of each other in the process of growing up , whether it is a brother or sister, or a younger brother and sister . After all, the company of the parents is halfway, and the company of the partner needs to wait until twenty years later. And the relationship that accompanies us from childhood to old age is probably only brothers and sisters.
Since the opening of the two-child policy, many parents have wanted to have a second child to prevent a child from being too lonely. If a pair of children can make up the word "good", it will be even better. Speaking of which, have you noticed that children's psychology often shows such characteristics: the big treasure in the family always fantasizes that he has a sister or brother, and the second treasure may fantasize about being the boss.
In fact, as time goes on, we are more and more able to appreciate the changes between children. For example, when I was a child, my sister always took care of my brother, and when my brother grew up, he had enough strength to protect his sister. Of course, there are still many such examples. What I want to say is that it may not be within our control to have a boy or a girl, but as the old saying goes, "children and grandchildren will have their own children and grandchildren." As children grow up, there will always be people who can warm each other up.
The summer vacation is coming to an end, and many children are happily packing their bags and heading back to school. Many mothers in the circle of friends say that in addition to the "little joy" of raising their children, they feel "little separation" again and again. Yes, "the same mother in the same world", every mother more or less will have some knife mouth and tofu heart. Although when the children just came home from vacation, it felt a little too lively. But when the child was about to leave, it was more reluctant.
When helping my mother on Zhihu, I saw such a question "Is it just because I am afraid that the child will be lonely?" One mother's answer was, "It's not the children who are lonely, but the parents themselves. Seeing the children go to kindergarten, elementary school, junior high school, high school, and university, and their time at home is getting shorter and shorter, they will find that there is no one there anymore. I played with myself..."
To be honest, this answer really made Mommy feel a little surprised. There are many meanings of having a second child. Some parents worry that their children will be lonely, some children may be a surprise, and some parents may just worry that their children will grow up alone. Maybe when the children grow up and look back, they will understand that when they feel lonely, in addition to the more than 100 million cells in their body to accompany them, there is also a relative of the same age who always accompanies them. No matter how old you live, there will always be common topics and you can play together.
After reading today's sharing, what are the reasons why parents are preparing to have a second child? What have you been surprised by in your life? If you have any questions about parenting, please feel free to bother, come and leave a message to share with us! Looking forward to every encounter with you!