Do elders in the family really love their children or do they fake love? It's easy to see through false feelings, are you at home?

Speaking of old people hurting children, this should be a topic that stirred up a thousand waves.

Some old people really love their children, and some old people are extremely disgusted with their children, and there are some hypocrisy.

In fact, whether the elderly love their children can be seen at a glance. If you like it, you like it, and if you don't like it, don't force it. The most unacceptable thing is hypocrisy.

My grandmother took care of me in every possible way, she devoted all her efforts, and forgot that the world is the only one who still remembers me.

I was brought up by my grandmother, because my parents were very busy with work and my grandmother was paralyzed, so I could only follow my grandma. At first, I lived with my grandma in the countryside, and then when I was at school age, my grandma wanted me to receive a better education. No matter how unaccustomed I was to city life, I still took me back to the city where my parents lived.

My grandmother took me to and from school every day, took care of my food and daily life, and took great care of me. She often used her "coffin book" to buy me things I liked.

Later, when I grew up, went to college, and left my grandmother's side, but my grandmother suffered from Alzheimer's disease. I forgot the whole world but only remembered me. I remember the place where I went to elementary school. I'm off school.

Whenever I talk about my grandma, I always burst into tears!

This grandmother really loves her granddaughter, sacrifices herself to live freely in the countryside, and takes care of her meticulously. Even if she is sick, she still remembers to pick up her granddaughter from school.

I haven't felt my grandma's love since I was a child, and the only time I recognized it was just pretending

Grandma has two sons, the uncle and my father. The uncle has a good job and a high salary. He has two apartments in the city. My father is an ordinary migrant worker, and his salary is only enough to support his family. Bought a house in town.

I grew up beside my grandma, but I clearly felt that grandma didn't care for me.

In my impression, when the uncle's family came back, grandma always hugged the uncle's child happily, and often bought him clothes and shoes to send to him, but grandma never really bought me anything, the only time grandma was kind to me, It's just to praise my good grades in front of outsiders, that's all.

I was very happy to hear this when I was a child, but when I grew up, I realized that it was just grandma pretending to be in front of others.

Is the old man's love for his child a falsehood? In fact, at a glance

Two netizens have two different life experiences, one is hurt to the core by the old man, and the other does not feel the love of the old man at all.

In fact, whether the elderly at home love their children, whether it is the children's parents or the children themselves, can be personally experienced.

(1) Unwilling to spend time and effort to take care of children

Before giving birth to a child, the elderly in the family gave birth to all kinds of births, and they said: "You don't need to worry about having a child, I will help you." As a result, after giving birth to the child, I found various reasons not to take the child, my health was not good, and I couldn't leave it at home...

Even though some elderly people fulfill their promises, their children's clothes are always washed after the mother gets off work, and their diapers are not changed. The so-called taking a child is nothing more than watching the child not get lost.

(2) Being stingy with buying things for children

The elderly who put their children in their hearts will think of their own children when they see toys on the street, clothes and shoes in the store. Old people who have children in their hearts, even if they have no money, will always think about being good to their children.

However, there are also many stingy old people who have never bought a suit of clothes when their children are several years old. For these elders, don't pretend that you love children, it's too fake.

(3) Often picky and dislike children

Children are always naughty. Elderly people who love children usually protect their children. Even if parents want to educate their children, the elderly can protect them as much as possible.

However, some old people often say that the child is not good here and there in front of parents, and they dislike the child's dislike of cleanliness and mischief. In short, in the mouth of the old man, the child is useless. This shows that the old man really dislikes children in his heart. In his eyes, children are all shortcomings and no advantages. Then I have to add: I am all for his good, in fact, whether it is good or not, children and parents can see at a glance.

We should be grateful that the elderly love their children, because it is a continuation of love and has no purpose at all; it doesn’t matter if they don’t love children, the children have their own parents’ love; , The essence is that he does not love, but he is not good for him because he is afraid of being seen through and gossiping, or because his children will find out.

So, hypocrisy is more annoying than not loving.

Today's topic: Tell me about the cases of false love for children around you!