The son's surname is 'Che', so far no one dares to call his name directly. Netizens: How dare you call him!

A name is the second face to know a person, and a label that accompanies a person's life. A good name will make a deep and good impression on strangers. In the matter of choosing a name, many parents have also put their best wishes and wishes in their children's names.

Mr. Che recently had a hard time because his son, who was cheerful and lively after entering junior high school, became gradually withdrawn and did not want to hang out with his classmates. After communicating with my son, I learned that it was the son's name that was to blame!

His son's surname is ''Che''. Due to limited education, Mr. Che chose the name ''Che Zhen'' casually. Netizens exclaimed: How dare you call this! Unknown father Che ran to the school, and the teacher expressed embarrassment that he did not dare to call him by his name.

After an online inquiry, Dad Che suddenly realized that it was his temporary ''willful'' that caused an unnecessary misunderstanding and delayed the child.

Although the name is just a code name, it is a label to follow people's life. Weird names will lead to ridicule and misunderstanding by others, resulting in personal psychological inferiority and loneliness. So, a good name is really important for a child's physical and mental development.

So, how do parents choose a good name for their child?

First, you can refer to ancient poems.

As we pay more and more attention to and carry forward Chinese traditional culture, ancient poetry and ancient prose have gradually attracted more and more attention. Many netizens even like to use ancient poems as their screen names. Chinese culture is extensive and profound, and by making good use of ancient poetry, children's names can have a pleasant pronunciation and at the same time have a beautiful meaning and a moving artistic conception.

The names of many stars have been transformed into ancient poems: for example, ''Jiang Shuying'' is borrowed from ''Shuying is horizontal and sloping, the water is clear and shallow, and the fragrance floats in the moon and dusk'', hoping that children can be poetic and picturesque; ''Jiang Yiyan'' is To use Du Fu's poem: ''The Qingjiang River embraces the village and flows, and the Changxia River Village is quiet. I went to Zilaitang to go up to the swallows, and got close to the gulls in the water on a blind date. '', looks very cool.

Of course, when borrowing ancient poems, you should also pay attention to understand the real meaning behind them.

Secondly, you can use the child's birth date to name it.

Knowing the child's birthday and making up for what is missing is also a common method that many parents choose. However, we should not be overly superstitious and go to the fortune-teller to ask for immortals. Proper understanding of naming is also a kind of fun, asking for a good luck and integrating the expectations of parents for their children.

There is a lot of knowledge and knowledge about the birth date. If parents with limited knowledge in this area, you can ask friends or experts who know about them. Don’t spend a lot of money to believe in some so-called masters and be deceived into confusion.

Again, avoid overly generic names.

Fifty out of one hundred people are called ''Zhang Wei'' and 30 are called ''Junjie''. Popular names, although you can't go wrong, will not be icing on the cake for your children.

An uncharacteristic name may make the child gradually become a ''Xiao Ming'' in the mouths of others in the future. Without a recognizable name, it is difficult for others to remember you in the crowd. Whether at school, company, or at events and competitions, a big name always gets others' attention first and can give you some advantages. Of course, the name is not everything, the name is just a starting point.

Finally, pay attention to the phonological beauty of the name.

To write a good poem, you need to pay attention to the beginning and the end. To choose a good name, you need to pay attention to the beauty of phonology, that is, the name must be read with a twist and a beauty of rhythm, and it must be a combination of flat and flat. For example, the surname of ''two'' is best matched with the first name of ''two or four''; the surname of ''one'' is best matched with ''three or two'' or ''four or two'' name, etc.

Of course, the rhythm is not absolute. In actual use, it must be read several times, so that it is not sloppy.

In short, an excellent name must achieve the perfect harmony of ''sound, shape and meaning''. No uncommon words, simple and smooth. After parents decide on a name, they should use a dictionary or the Internet to see if the name will cause ambiguity and misunderstanding. You can also ask a lot of friends around you and listen to other people's opinions. I believe it is not difficult to choose a good name.