The 6-year-old boy's composition got 'full marks', every sentence was full of sadness, the teacher couldn't help crying after reading it

When parents divorce, it is the children who are most affected. Divorced parents can find their own alternative path in life, and the child is the only connection between the two. However, many parents often choose to abandon or ignore their children in order to pursue their own life.

Recently, a 6-year-old child's ''full score composition'' has been exposed on the Internet. The title of the composition is "Loneliness", and the short article of less than 100 words reveals the sadness that overflows the screen.

In the text, the little boy mentioned that after his parents divorced, his father rebuilt the family and gave birth to a younger brother. One day, his father suggested that the whole family go on a trip to make the little boy very happy. But what I didn't expect was that the father left with his half-brother and wife, and no one remembered him.

Although there is no ''loneliness'' in the article, the 6-year-old boy is purely an objective narrative, but the lines are full of loneliness, and every sentence is full of sadness. The teacher could not stop crying after reading it, and gave the child a big full score.

There are many, many more such children, and parents who are starting a new family are often unable to take care of their ex-children. But children themselves are innocent, they don't get the care they should have, and they need to take on too many things since childhood. Many parents don't realize that not only is loneliness, but that divorce has a particularly big impact on children.

So, what effect does restructuring a family have on children?

First, the lack of love leads to loneliness

Divorced parents often choose to rebuild their families, and their new wives or husbands will have children of their own. No matter how much parents love their original child, when a baby is born in the family, they will definitely spend most of their time, energy and attention on the new baby, and lack of care for the original child.

In the process of children growing up, the lack of parental and maternal love that they should have will make children become introverted and withdrawn. Even if the children grow up healthy, it is a lack of love for them, and the children will not be as enthusiastic and cheerful as other children in happy families when they grow up. Those who can love others must also be loved.

Second, there may be exclusion

We have seen such examples: after many families have been reorganized, the new appointees often regard children who are not their own as a thorn in the side of the eye and thorn in their flesh in order to consolidate their status, and they are hard on them. Not only do they not give care to their children, but they also exclude them everywhere, making their biological fathers or mothers grudge their children and no longer love them.

This situation is exacerbated when parents and newcomers have children of their own. Not only will the new one shove the child, but the half-child, along with the child who grows up knowing it's not their parent's child, will also hate them. This puts a lot of pressure on the child's mind.

Not every child can be as lucky and happy as Cinderella, and reality is often crueler than fairy tales. The ugly duckling will not become a swan, and the children who are left out will only become more and more lonely.

Again, I can't see my biological parents all the year round

Parents who have restructured their families after divorce must not meet often, and children who follow one parent will be in a situation where they cannot see their relatives for a long time. Some families even prevent their children from seeing their biological parents.

For a long time, children will have a sense of isolation and alienation from their biological parents. Without parents, there is also less love. Therefore, such children are in charge of the family earlier than their peers, and do everything independently and without support. It is shown as maturity that does not match the age. Some people may think that there is nothing wrong with independence, but this independence comes at the price of the warmth of love.

Finally, it will affect the children's three views

Divorce of parents at a young age makes children feel insecure about love and marriage, which is not conducive to starting a family in the future. It is difficult for them to learn to let go of their psychological guards to trust each other, and they are often suspicious and suspicious. The failed marriage of their parents made it difficult for them to communicate with the opposite sex normally and became sensitive and vulnerable.

In conclusion, not all restructured families have unpleasant memories for their children. As long as the family is in harmony, even if it is not the biological parents, they can live happily as well. More tolerance, less selfishness and suspicion, is the best for the growth of children.