On the subway, the poses of 'high-value' siblings became popular. Netizens: This is the most advanced way to show off wealth

Upbringing cannot be equated with education, identity, background or IQ. Upbringing is the temperament that a person exudes from the inside out, and it is the embodiment of a person's family education . Even if a person has a high education and IQ, if he does not have a good education, then such a person will not have a long way to go in the future. Because no one likes an uneducated person, and an uneducated person will disgust those around him.

Recently, a video broke out on the Internet and aroused public discussion. In the video is a pair of siblings, both sitting on subway seats. When the older sister saw her younger brother put her guitar on the seat, she hurriedly took the guitar off the seat and put it at her feet and told the younger brother not to stand on the seat, because someone else would need a seat.

The sensible younger brother nodded immediately, and even moved towards his elder sister, trying to make more space for those who needed seats. People can't help but be moved by such a scene. This pair of siblings not only have "good looks", but also have a pleasing and good upbringing. Netizens said one after another: This is the highest level of showing off wealth!

Indeed, all behaviors of children are the epitome of the family. Only the careful cultivation of parents can make children have a good education, know manners and rules when going out, and will not cause trouble to those around them.

Many parents will show their superior family conditions by buying the most expensive clothes and luxury items for their children and themselves, but they don’t know that cultivating a well-educated child is the most proud and superlative display of wealth.

So, how can parents cultivate good parenting in their children?

• First, teach your children to be polite

Children learn to be polite, which is the most basic kind of education.

If a person does not even have the most basic manners, then all other qualities cannot exist. Parents should always remind their children to learn to be polite to others in daily life, learn to say "thank you" when they receive help or give from others; learn to say "sorry" when they cause trouble or harm to others ; Also let the children often say "please" and "you" and other honorific words.

Let children understand that no one in this world is obliged to help them impermanently, and they must be grateful in order to show their upbringing.

• Secondly, let the children learn to obey the rules

A country cannot operate without laws, and a family also needs family rules to educate children and restrain themselves. A child who has no sense of rules or disobedience will pay the price. All criminals lead to such tragedies because they don't know how to abide by the rules and the law.

The siblings in the story are very conscious of rules and know that seats are used for resting people rather than playing guitars. Also know how to take a seat alone, don't stand in other people's seats.

As long as parents teach their children to abide by the rules and think about other people's positions more, then the children will become more considerate of others and consider others, instead of starting from selfishness and selfishness . Only when children understand the rules and standards of behavior from an early age can they restrain themselves, can they gradually become educated.

• Finally, don't always make wild jokes with your children

We have all experienced such a thing. When the child was young, many elders or relatives liked to make fun of the baby and tell some jokes that were more lively.

The elders originally said some witty words to tease the children, but when the children grow up, they still say some inappropriate jokes, which will subtly affect the children, and they will become joking and rude.

In the long run, children will form the habit of "making too much jokes" in the process of communicating with others, causing unhappiness to others. Knowing how to speak properly, what to say and what not to say, is also a child's well-educated performance. It is a joke if the party thinks it is funny; but if the party thinks it is malicious, it is immoral.

Summarize

All in all, if everyone in this world can become an educated person, then our world will become more beautiful and harmonious. Society will also become more stable and secure. A truly good education can never be developed overnight . It requires parents to cultivate their children carefully so that they can develop good habits.