On the bus, the little boy forced the pregnant woman to give up her seat, and the driver was forced to stop after hearing what he said
Nowadays, many parents are busy with their careers and busy all day, so they have no time to take care of their children, so they dote on their children extraordinarily. Children do not understand the feelings of their parents, and parents will only give and give blindly. The child is always like a slow-growing ''giant baby''.
This morning, there were many people on the bus, including company employees and students. People from all walks of life were crowded on the bus, looking forward to arriving at their destination early.
However, a child who looked like a primary school student, drilled and squeezed all the way to the back of the car after getting on the bus. Many passengers were very dissatisfied after being pushed by their children, but when they turned their heads and saw that it was a child, they didn't say much. The passengers were quite tolerant of this child.
But what happened next made many passengers very angry. The primary school student squeezed to a seat by the window, opened his mouth to a pregnant woman in the seat and scolded, saying that the pregnant woman should get up and give him the seat.
At first, the pregnant woman couldn't react a little. She looked at the child for a while. The child's behavior was very disgusting. .
The little boy forced the pregnant woman to give up her seat, which aroused the disgust of the surrounding passengers, but in the end the pregnant woman gave in and stood aside. The commotion of this incident attracted the attention of the driver, and the next scene made the passengers applaud.
It turned out that the driver was very angry after hearing what he said, so he was forced to stop the car and came over to ask the boy to get off the car in person.
There are more and more children like this now. Most of them are spoiled by their families and used to being spoiled since childhood, so they are so domineering and arrogant, but such spoiling is very unfavorable for the future of the child, and even affects the life of the child. .
So what can parents do to avoid overindulging their children?
- Correct the practice of ''children first''
Many parents tend to put themselves at the end, give priority to their children in everything, save money on their own food, and can’t treat their children badly, so that children gradually feel that this is normal, and they form a habit of thinking that others should be their own masters, becoming domineering and rude. , parents should correct this practice as soon as possible, so that children are treated the same as every member of the family. From the material and spiritual aspects of life, they will no longer exercise privileges for children, and no longer focus on children.
2, do not do things for children
Many children have grown to a certain age, but they do not even have the most basic self-care ability. Parents are still feeding and dressing their children every day. Such children will become selfish, unable to adapt to society, and easy to be abused by life. Elimination, parents must learn to let go, let the children try to learn to take care of their own life and some of the most basic housework.
- Treat children with principles
Parents should treat their children with principles. They cannot promise their children unconditionally. When they grow up, their children will have no sense of boundaries and do not know how to respect others. Therefore, parents should have principles for their children, and do not unconditionally meet their children’s requirements. When it is wrong, parents should not be partial to their children, but should accompany their children to face the problem.
- Take care of your own children
Many elderly people love their grandsons or granddaughters very much. Usually, they are always close to their children. They are reluctant to let their children do anything. , parents should take care of their children by themselves, which can prevent children from being spoiled by the elderly, and can also effectively avoid parenting conflicts with the elderly.
- Don’t take care too much
Excessive care of children is also a parenting mistake that parents like to make. Parents are often partial to their children, so that children cannot face up to their own mistakes, and do not view their own mistakes correctly, which often causes the child to lose the best time to correct mistakes and lead to growth. and serious problems in the future.
- Don’t compensate children with substances
Because many parents are very busy, they always provide their children with a lot of material to replace their lack of companionship. In fact, no matter how busy parents are, they should give their children more company and educate their children. Material cannot replace the love of parents.
Parents should not pamper their children unrestrictedly. This will not only fail to help their children grow, but will harm them, making them unable to integrate into society and becoming a person who is hated by those around them.