On the bus, a little boy forced a pregnant woman to give up her seat, and the driver was forced to stop after hearing what he said
Nowadays, many parents are busy with their careers and are busy all day long, so they suffer from no time to take care of their children, so they will dote on their children very much. Often the end result of this kind of doting is that little "overlords" have emerged long ago. Children don't understand their parents' feelings, and parents will only give and give blindly. The child is always like a "giant baby" who grows slowly.
This morning, there were a lot of people on the bus, including company employees, students, and people from all walks of life crowded in the bus, looking forward to arriving at their destination early.
However, a child who looked like a primary school student got into the car and squeezed all the way to the back of the car. Many passengers were very dissatisfied after being pushed by children, but when they turned their heads and saw that it was a child, they didn't say much. Passengers were quite tolerant of this child.
But what happened next made many passengers very angry. The primary school student squeezed to a seat by the window, opened his mouth and yelled at a pregnant woman present, saying that the pregnant woman should get up and give him the seat.
At first, the pregnant woman was a bit unresponsive. She stared at the child for a while. The child's behavior was very disgusting. She repeatedly yelled to sit here, saying that she was still a child, and pointed to the pregnant woman who said she should give up her seat to the child. .
The little boy forced the pregnant woman to give up her seat. This behavior aroused the disgust of the surrounding passengers, but in the end the pregnant woman gave in and stood aside. The commotion of this incident caught the driver's attention, and the next scene made the passengers applaud.
It turned out that the driver was very angry after hearing what he said, so he was forced to stop and came over to ask the boy to get off.
There are more and more children like this now, and most of them are doted on by their families and used to being pampered since they were young, so they are so domineering and arrogant, but this kind of doting is very detrimental to the children's future, and even affects the children's life fortune .
So, what can parents do to avoid over-indulging their children?
- Correct the practice of "children first"
Many parents often put themselves last, put their children first in everything, cut down on food and clothing, and can't treat their children badly, so that children gradually feel that this is normal, and form a habit, thinking that others should put themselves first, and become overbearing and rude , Parents should correct this practice as soon as possible, so that children are treated the same as every member of the family, from material to spiritual aspects of life, no longer exercise privileges over children, and no longer give priority to children.
- Do not do things for the children
Many children have grown to a certain age but do not even have the most basic ability to take care of themselves. Parents are still feeding and dressing their children every day. Such children will become selfish, unable to adapt to society, and easily ostracized by life. Elimination, parents must learn to let go, let children try to learn to take care of their own lives and some of the most basic housework.
- Treat children with principles
Parents must treat their children with principles, and they cannot promise their children unconditionally. When they grow up, children will have no sense of boundaries and do not know how to respect others. Therefore, parents must have principles for their children, and do not meet their children's requirements unconditionally. When mistakes are made, parents should not favor their children, but should accompany their children to face up to the problem.
- Take care of the children yourself
Many elderly people love their grandsons or granddaughters very much. They always hold on to their children in everything, and they are not willing to let their children do anything. They always give their children money in private and dote on them infinitely, making them self-willed and domineering. , Parents should take care of their children by themselves, so as to prevent the children from being spoiled by the elderly, and at the same time effectively avoid child-rearing conflicts with the elderly.
- Don't take too much care
Excessive care for children is also a parenting mistake that parents like to make. Parents often favor their children, making them unable to face up to their own mistakes, and will not correctly view their own mistakes. This often causes children to lose the best time to correct their mistakes, leading to growth. and serious problems in the future.
- Don’t use material things to compensate children
Because many parents are very busy, they always provide their children with a lot of material to replace the company they lack. In fact, no matter how busy the parents are, they must give their children more company and educate their children. Material cannot replace the love of parents.
Parents should not pamper their children unrestrictedly. This will not only fail to help the child grow up, but will harm the child, making the child unable to integrate into the society and becoming a person hated by the people around him.