In order to lull the child to sleep, the father dressed up as a 'mother', netizens: this appearance is too high

Every child is the flesh and blood that fell from the mother, and the baby will be very dependent on the mother when he is young. Because the mother is the one who feeds the baby, whenever the baby cries, the mother's arms are the warmest place for the baby. But also because the baby was too dependent on the mother when he was young, many mothers had a headache and couldn't get a moment's rest.

Xiaoli and her husband are a young couple born in the 1990s. After giving birth, they took good care of the child. However, the baby is more dependent on Xiaoli, and usually doesn't like to be hugged by his father.

On this day, Xiao Li had something to do when she went out, so she had no choice but to let the child's father take care of her. We also know that father is not as careful and patient as mother, and he must not take good care of the child. When it was about to go to bed at noon, the child refused to sleep and kept crying, so it was not good to be teased.

This made Dad anxious. In order to lull the child to sleep , he had no choice but to take out the wig, clothes, and lipstick that Xiaoli usually made up. After some dressing up, Dad looks amazing! The child thought it was the mother's return, so he stopped crying and fell asleep peacefully.

When Xiaoli came home, she was also shocked to see the harmonious appearance of "mother and daughter". When he found out that it was the husband who dressed up as a "mother" in order to coax the children, he thought it was very interesting, so he took photos and recorded them on social platforms. Netizens exclaimed after seeing it: this looks too good!

They are also their own biological parents, but most babies are more dependent on their mothers. For mothers, this is not only a happy thing, but it is also an annoyance sometimes.

So, why do most children stick to their mothers?

1. Have a greater sense of trust in the mother

There is a big difference between men and women. Mothers usually appear in front of their children with a gentle, careful and patient image . Mothers are also more attentive to their children's needs. On the contrary, men are inherently more nervous, and many things are not as thoughtful and careful as women.

Therefore, children feel fond of and dependent on their mother's care, and thus become more dependent on their mother.

2. Babies get to know their mothers earlier

Because babies are fed by their mothers from infancy, long-term exposure allows babies to become familiar with their mother's smell first, and then their mother's voice.

It is not difficult for us to find that many children have the performance of being born, and do not like to be hugged by strangers, and some even cry when they are hugged by strangers. But as soon as the mother appears, the child will rush forward and the tears will stop.

When a child is very young, he does not have the ability to distinguish people, but he will have a certain feeling and recognize his mother, so the child will be more dependent on his mother.

However, a woman's role in society is not only a mother, but also a company employee, a friend's girlfriend, a husband's wife, a parent's child, etc. It is impossible to be with the child 24 hours a day. While the mothers went about their own affairs, the fathers did the heavy lifting.

Mom is not at home, Hei Si, what tricks can keep the baby from crying?

1. Divert the child's attention

Many noisy children are because they pay attention to the mother's departure and ignore other things and people around them. At this time, the father can use games or toys to divert their attention, so that the children no longer pay attention to the fact that "the mother is not there" .

But after the child's attention is successfully diverted to other more interesting things, he will be immersed in new things and stop crying.

2. Let the children know their itinerary in advance

For older babies with certain understanding and communication skills, the mother can tell the child where she is going and when she will come back before going out, so that the child can rest assured . And tell the child to listen to his father at home, so that the child will not feel insecure because of the mother's departure.

3. Establish family rules for children from an early age

Parents can make a deal with their children and set some rules for their children, such as obediently going to bed on time and not crying when mother is not at home. A certain amount of discipline is also required in the family, which enables children to learn to obey the rules from an early age. Parents must be fair and just when enforcing house rules. Don't use house rules as a means of controlling children, but as a tool to help children learn to learn to be independent and self-disciplined.

All in all, parents are always the warmest harbor for children, and mothers are also the most important part of giving birth to children, and they are the ones that children cannot leave. Mothers should also cherish the time when they are glued , because when the child grows up and becomes independent, he will turn himself into clinging to the child, and it is impossible for the child to revolve around himself every day.