In order to coax the child to sleep, the father dressed up as a 'mother', netizens: This looks too high

Every child is the flesh and blood that falls from the mother, and the baby will be particularly dependent on the mother when they are young. Because the mother is the one who nurses the baby, whenever the baby cries, the mother's arms are the warmest place for the baby. But also because of the baby's over-dependence on the mother when they were young, many mothers have a headache and can't get a moment's rest.

Xiaoli and her husband are a young couple born in the 1990s. After giving birth to the baby, the two took good care of the child. However, the baby is more dependent on Xiaoli, and usually does not like being held by her father.

On this day, Xiaoli went out for something, she really had no choice but to let the child's father take care of her. We also know that the father is not as careful and patient as the mother, and the care of the child is definitely not in place. When it was about noon to go to bed, the child refused to sleep and kept crying. It was not good to be so funny.

This made Dad anxious. In order to put the child to sleep , he had no choice but to take out the wigs, clothes, and lipstick that Xiao Li usually wore. After a lot of dressing up, my father turned out to be amazing! The child thought that it was the mother who came back, so he stopped crying and fell asleep at ease.

When Xiaoli returned home, she was also shocked to see the harmonious appearance of ''mother and daughter''. When he learned that it was the husband who was trying to coax the child to dress up as a ''mother'', he thought it was very interesting, so he took a photo and uploaded it to the social platform. After seeing it, netizens were amazed: This face value is too high!

They are also their biological parents, but most babies are more dependent on their mothers. For mothers, this is both a happy thing and sometimes an annoyance.

So why do most children stick to their mothers?

1. Have a greater sense of trust in the mother

Men are originally very different from women, and mothers usually appear in front of their children as a gentle, careful and patient image . Mothers are also more attentive to their children's needs. On the contrary, men are inherently more nervous, and many things are not thoughtful and thoughtful by women.

Therefore, the child feels like and depends on the mother's care, and thus is more dependent on the mother.

2. Babies get to know their mothers earlier

Because babies are fed by their mothers from infancy, prolonged exposure allows babies to become familiar first with their mother's scent, and then with their mother's voice.

It is not difficult to find that many children have the performance of recognizing their birth, do not like to be hugged by strangers, and some even cry when they are hugged by strangers. But as soon as the mother appeared, the child would rush forward and the tears would stop.

When children are very young, they do not have the ability to distinguish people, but they will have certain feelings and recognize their mothers, so children will rely more on their mothers.

However, a woman's role in society is not only a mother, but also a company employee, a friend's best friend, a husband's wife, a parent's child, etc. It is impossible to accompany the child 24 hours a day. While the mothers went about their own business, the father took on the burden.

Mother is not at home, black silk, what tricks can make the child not cry?

1. Divert the child's attention

Many noisy children are focused on the absence of their mother and ignore other things and people around them. At this time, the father can divert their attention through games or toys, so that the children no longer pay attention to the fact that the mother is not there. .

But after the child's attention has been successfully diverted to other, more interesting things, he will immerse himself in new things and stop crying.

2. Let your children know their itinerary in advance

For older babies with certain understanding and communication skills, the mother can tell the child where she is going and when she will return before going out, so that the child can rest assured . And tell the child to listen to his father at home, so that the child will not feel insecure because of the mother's departure.

3. Establish family rules for children from an early age

Parents can make deals with their children and make some rules for their children, such as obediently sleeping on time and not crying when the mother is not at home. A certain amount of discipline is also needed in the family, which allows children to learn to obey the rules from an early age. Parents must be fair and just when implementing family rules. They should not use family rules as a means to control their children, but as a tool to help children learn to be independent and self-disciplined.

All in all, parents are always the warmest harbor for children, and mothers are also the most important link in nurturing children, and they are people who cannot leave for children. Mothers should also cherish the time when they are clingy , because when the child grows up and becomes independent, he turns into clinging to the child by himself, and the child cannot revolve around him every day.