Parents: 'I'm sorry for the child, but I can't support you if I leave work', who wants to miss the child's growth

We can often hear the voices of many children, and hope that our parents can accompany us more, because every day parents are busy working outside, earning money to support the family, and they really have no time to accompany their children. The loneliness of children is forever. There is no way to understand it, but who can understand the helplessness of parents, if they put down their work, what will they use to support their children? What can you do to give your children a better life? In fact, whether it is a child or a parent, they all have the pain in their hearts, but this pain can only be lost by themselves, how can others understand and replace it? Mom and dad are working hard now, all hoping to earn a little more money, so that their children can have a higher starting point and a better life in the future.

Once when he walked to the parking lot, he saw a driver's brother hiding behind a large truck, crying secretly. When he saw someone coming, he quickly wiped his tears, then walked to the front of the car, holding a four-year-old The little girl sighed helplessly, there is no way to take care of the child by driving, but how can you raise the child without driving? It is really difficult. Today, the little girl accompanied her father for six hours. She was going to send her daughter back to her hometown tomorrow. But just now my daughter said to her father that she was not tired and liked watching her drive. Dad couldn't hold back when he heard this, and finally hid in the car to get his eyes out, because the father felt very sorry for his daughter. This kind of sadness and helplessness, only middle-aged people will understand.

I can’t accompany my children at work, so how can I work with my children? When many parents go out to work, when they are about to leave their children, they are full of reluctance, guilt and helplessness. If they are not under the pressure of life, and not for the sake of giving their children a better life, who would want to miss their children? As for the most important stage of growth, if you can choose a comfortable life, who would choose to be displaced?

In the world of parents, there is never a word that has the best of both worlds. Some people say that children will always be their parents' weakness, but children are also their parents' armor. They are not afraid of wind and rain, and they go forward bravely, just to give their children the best life. Being a parent has both the old and the young. It is shaky under the wind and rain of life, but you have to hold on to it, because when you open your eyes, there are people around you who need to rely on you, but there is no one you can rely on. A person who looks very beautiful on the surface a lot of times, in fact, life is not as good as a dog, he just doesn’t want to be seen by others, and silently licks his own wounds at night. Behind every scene, there are others hidden behind it. Unseen heaviness and bitterness.

In fact, many people bow their heads and bow their heads for life outside, but they always want the best for their children in front of their children, and can never refuse any requests from their children. In fact, every middle-aged person is the same, in front of family, friends and customers. They will face it in different ways, even if work has worn down their body, even if they have been insomnia for several nights, they will not show a little tiredness in front of their family and children, even when they are sad and difficult, every parent will In trying their best to give their children a good starting point and future, many parents can save money and eat only steamed buns and pickles every day in order to fulfill a certain hobby or dream of their children, in order not to feel wronged for their children, but rather to be wronged For myself, parents will laugh like children when they see their children have achieved success. Who would be willing to miss the growth of their children when they are parents? Who wants to let their children become left-behind children? But life is really not easy. In order to create a higher starting line for children, we can only endure the sadness and helplessness silently.