When picking up children from kindergarten, parents must remember not to do these things, especially the first one!
Many parents feel helpless and melancholy when their children go to kindergarten, because they have to pick up and drop off their children at regular times every day, but many parents cannot pick up and drop off their children on time every day due to work and family reasons, so they always ask their children. Wait for them at school after school. In fact, such a request will have a certain impact on the child's psychology, and it is likely to hurt the child's young mind. So what other kinds of behavior can harm children? Let's take a look at the following behaviors that are not conducive to the development of children.
After the child goes to kindergarten, when parents take their children to and from school, it is best not to do these things, otherwise it will be easy to be unflattering and affect the child.
1. Always procrastinating when picking up children
Many parents let their children go to kindergarten in order to let their children develop some good habits, such as some good habits in study and life. If parents want their children to develop these good habits, they must first lead by example. If they want to give their children a good concept of time, they also need to pick up their children to and from school on time every day. Setting a good example for their children can play a leading role. If parents always procrastinate, then over time, children will be influenced by their parents, and gradually they will not even have the heart to go to kindergarten.
2. Always get together to discuss the teacher's performance
Many parents are used to discussing their child's teacher's situation with other parents while waiting for their children to finish school. During the discussion, they always talk about some bad topics, such as some teachers' problems and some children's problems. When receiving children, these topics are likely to be heard by children. Children who are often discussed by parents often have a kind of resistance. Slowly they will refuse to go to school, do not like school, do not like teachers, do not like classmates... ...If the child has such a mentality, then parents need to pay attention to whether some of their own words in life hurt the child, and must be corrected in time, otherwise it will leave a psychological shadow on the child.
3. When picking up the child, he will habitually ask whether the child has been criticized by the teacher
Presumably every parent will be very concerned about the performance of their children in school every day. When receiving their children, they will always ask their children whether they have received criticism from teachers today, etc. In fact, children also have self-esteem when they are young, and they are reluctant to mention things that they feel disgraceful to others, which will make children feel guilty. Moreover, children are very unfamiliar with all things and people in kindergarten. Always asking children such questions will cause children to have a psychological shadow on the teacher. They feel that the teacher is a very dignified and serious person, so they are afraid of the teacher and afraid of going to school. . Parents must first let their children know that the teacher is a trustworthy and respected person, and they must establish a sense of intimacy between the child and the teacher. In addition, the teacher cannot praise the child today and criticize the child as a child learning in a day in kindergarten. The value of learning is to let children turn excellence into a habit, rather than pretending to be excellent in order to avoid teacher criticism.
how about you? Have you had any of these behaviors when picking up your kids to and from school? If there is any, please change it quickly, otherwise it will not be conducive to the healthy growth of the child. As a parent, you need to lead by example, and encourage and praise your child more so that your child will have the motivation to go to kindergarten every day, and learn and grow happier!