The 2-year-old sister gave her 5-month-old sister a careful bath. Netizens: This technique is really good
I don't know if parents with two little babies at home usually have some sweet troubles: the two babies are making trouble together, laughing and laughing, sometimes making parents unable to rest for a moment. However, as long as the two babies can get along well and grow up healthy and happy, it is the greatest gratification for parents.
In a recent video on Weibo, a cute two-year-old sister bathed her five-month-old sister, which melted people's hearts. In the video, the sister is holding a small stool, sitting in front of the small inflatable tub dedicated to her sister, and bathing her chubby, white and tender sister who is sitting in the water. The elder sister used her small hands to lift water for her sister, gently rubbed her little belly, small arms and legs, and also washed her face. She was clearly enjoying it, washing her head back with a lovely smile. The younger sister also seemed to feel the comfort of taking a bath, and happily kicked her calves in the water. These little sisters are so cute, they are so loving.
Netizens left messages on Weibo: "chubby little baby, so cute!", "Haha, this sister is so nice! But is my sister really not a big doll to her?", "This technology , more slippery than what I washed my girl."
Parents also need to put in a lot of effort to get them to live in harmony and develop a deep relationship between two children. Because the behavior and attitude of parents are very important to the development of children. Parents should be prepared.
⑴Do not beautify the arrival of the second child and accept the child's dissatisfaction
Have any parents found that when the second baby was born, the attitude of the boss changed greatly, and he was not as expected and happy as the mother during pregnancy. In fact, this is caused by the excessive beautification of the second child by the parents in front of the eldest. Maybe the parents said a lot of good things to him in order to get the boss to agree to have younger siblings. What "the younger brother and sister are very cute, they will look like the elder brother (sister) when they were young", "the baby is very obedient, will not make you unhappy, and will play with you" and so on. But when the second child is born, the eldest may find that this is not the case at all. Newborn babies sometimes cry and cry and are very tossed. Moreover, parents may not let the baby play with the boss, and they will pay more attention to the baby, making the boss feel left out. Under such a psychological gap, the old nature changed its attitude.
Therefore, parents should not over-beautify the arrival of the second child from the very beginning. Be honest and tell your child directly: "Sometimes he's fun, but sometimes he's a nuisance, sometimes he's crying, and he's annoying to us all; Taking care of him may also ignore you. But if you feel left out, you can come and tell us, we will give you special love and let you know that we love you. "Be prepared to accept the truth in advance, it will be more Adjust your mind well.
(2) Accept the child's emotions and stop the child's behavior
In fact, no matter how careful parents are in the process of children's growth, it is unavoidable for children to be jealous, jealous, wronged and other emotions. Parents need to understand and accept their children's emotions. They can appease their children, but never allow their children to hurt others, whether it is verbal unfriendliness or physical bullying. Otherwise, in the long run, it will not only cause bad experiences and experiences to the bullied children, but also make it difficult for the bullying children to form a good character and cognition.
⑷ When children quarrel, pay more attention to their attitudes and words and deeds
Children quarrel and quarrel are also inevitable. At this time, what parents must not do is "stand in line", that is, stand directly in the position of a certain child and evaluate who is right and who is wrong. Parents should not think that a child is always the culprit of "dispute" and thus feel obligated to "rescue" another child who has been "bullied". Parental attitudes are also sometimes a source of conflict among children. Over-involvement of parents actually makes things more complicated, and even in the end, children may deliberately create conflicts and disputes to attract parents' attention. Calm down your emotions, reassure your child, and try to encourage your child to discuss ways to solve the problem on their own. This allows children to really learn and gain something.
It is a happy family with two babies. Parents will gain more and different fun in the process of two children growing up. The two babies will also accompany and support each other, learn more and feel more beautiful. However, how to make the two children live in harmony and make the family atmosphere warm and happy requires the wisdom and skills of the parents. The happiness of loving each other's family is inseparable from the wisdom of parents!