If the child has these three manifestations after school, it shows that he did not have a good time in kindergarten, and parents should pay attention to it.
In China, children are sent to kindergarten when they are three years old, precisely because they are still young. Many parents are worried that their children will be bullied at school. After all, three-year-old children have not yet mastered how to get along with others, and they cannot truly live alone without the family. Therefore, in the growth stage of the child, parents need to understand the child's situation and give the child the right help. However, during the period when the child is in kindergarten, the language expression ability is insufficient, and it is difficult for parents to know some things in their life from the child's mouth.
In fact, parents can know the status of their children in kindergarten as long as they pay attention to the following characteristics of their children:
1. The child is in a bad mood
Because children are still young, there will be a kind of resistance before entering kindergarten. They are unwilling to leave the family and leave their parents to go to places they are not familiar with. If the situation does not change for a long time after entering kindergarten, and there are even strange behaviors, then it is likely that the child's mood has deteriorated. If this happens to your child, parents must pay attention to communicating with the child. Because it is very likely that teachers have different attitudes towards children in school, which can easily damage children's self-esteem, and then children's personality will change, and some bad attitudes may appear to vent their dissatisfaction, or because The teacher doesn't care enough about the child, because the child is used to being surrounded by his family since he was a child, and he is anxious to live in a pampered life. After suddenly entering the kindergarten, he has to learn to be independent, which is a big challenge for many children. . Therefore, parents should try to communicate with their children and teach them patiently.
2. Children are reluctant to mention things in kindergarten
Many parents are used to asking about their children in kindergarten after receiving their children, because they want to care about whether their children are doing well in kindergarten and whether they have been bullied by others. However, when parents are constantly humiliating their children, the children are always reluctant to tell their parents. Parents, please don't worry, it's not necessarily that the child has been wronged at school, it may be because the child's ability to express is not enough. At this time, parents need to guide the child slowly, and slowly learn to communicate with others. , can express ideas in front of parents and answer parents' questions. If the child has a conflict with other friends at school and is unwilling to tell the matter, parents can also directly or indirectly contact the kindergarten and teachers to learn about the child's school life.
3. Children become cautious
People suddenly become cautious, it must be because he is afraid of doing something wrong. If the child comes back from kindergarten and becomes cautious about doing things, then parents can basically conclude that the child is not doing well at school. It's likely that you're still in school, you can't fit in with the group, or you can't make friends, and you feel lonely. This is a very important thing for children, because if a child can't find a sense of belonging, it will have a huge impact on the developing behavior, it may cause a shadow to the child's psychology, and the child will gradually change his personality. , gradually closed. If the child encounters such a thing, the parents must take it seriously, because for the child, this is not a trivial matter.
What about your children? Do you have any of these performances after school? If your child also has a similar situation, you must not ignore it. For specific methods, you can refer to this article!