The 2-year-old cute baby bows to the 91-year-old grandfather and makes fun of the old man: she is a filial baby
Our Chinese history is long and mighty, like a big river, surging and winding endlessly. Such a long history has brought about the inheritance from generation to generation. The inheritance of skills improves people's living standards, and the inheritance of culture enriches people's spiritual connotation, and the most important inheritance, the inheritance of family traditions, is the foundation of every member of a family. The influence of family traditions that everyone accepts from childhood will benefit a lot of people throughout their lives.
Family style is the foundation of a family, and every child will be affected by the family style since childhood. From the words and deeds of a child, the family education of the family can be seen. Recently, there is a cute, sensible and cute baby on Weibo. Recently, a 2-year-old girl in Shijiazhuang, Hebei went to visit her great-grandfather. She gave grandpa a melon seed and wanted grandpa to eat it. But the old man's teeth were not very good, so he peeled it off and fed it to his little great-granddaughter. After eating the melon seeds peeled by her 91-year-old grandfather, the little baby made an unexpected move: she first walked away two steps, then turned around and stood still, and bowed earnestly, which was directly amused. Great grandpa. The girl's mother said that she and the child's father would usually tell the child that they would bow when they saw their grandfather and grandma, but she didn't expect that she would listen. Now they go to see the elderly every one or two weeks, and every time their daughter sees her great grandfather and grandma, she bows earnestly. The old man's hearing is not very good, and he wears a hearing aid, but every time he sees his daughter bowing, the old man will smile very happily.
Netizens left messages on Weibo: "It's awesome! I look older at the age of three and look old at the age of seven. He is a filial child.", "The little baby is so cute, my heart is so cute.", "The family style is really good, Mom's education is very successful!"
Family style, literally, is the demeanor of a family. Although this kind of thing is invisible, it affects the growth of every generation in a family. Those families with long traditions and rich heritage basically pay more attention to etiquette and rules, and they all use family style to restrain their members' words and deeds. These are not useless antiques, but the root of the generation of talented people in the family. The story of the great calligrapher Yan Zhenqing explains the "Yan's Family Instructions", which is about self-cultivation, family management, life, and learning. "Qian's Family Instructions" uses the familiar stories of Qian Mu and Qian Weichang to answer why the Qian family came out So many academicians have questions. There are also "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions", "Zeng Guofan's Family Letter", "Fu Lei's Family Letter", etc., all tell people the truth that excellent family style makes excellent talents.
When it comes to family style, there is a sense of historical elegance and heaviness, which seems to be incompatible with the modern minimalist small family. In fact, family style is not only exclusive to the big family, it can be integrated into the family education of each family.
"My family's tradition is 'filial piety'. My parents told me that 'filial piety is the first', to respect and love the elders.", "When it comes to my family tradition, that is two words: rigorous. Do things carefully and carefully. , be meticulous.", "My parents often tell me to be frugal, not to compare waste, not to compare other children's food and clothing, but it must be decent." ... Maybe modern families do not have a system like "Yan's Family Instructions" The specific requirements of the parents, but in fact, the parents' education for their children in the details is the embodiment of the family style.
But now with the passage of time and the changes of the times, the inheritance of family tradition seems to be missing. In some public places, there seem to be more and more "bear children" who are rude and disregard the feelings of others. There are also many children who are disrespectful to their elders, ignore their answers, and act self-centered. This is caused by the unreasonable family education. The inheritance of family style is uninterrupted and indispensable!
The strict constraints and rules of the family style can make children feel too strict to accept and understand. But in fact that is the principle and wisdom of one generation in the family. When the child grows up and enters the society, the good habits that are strictly required from childhood will bring more benefits to the child.
Every family has its own family motto. They may be different, but they are all positive and good, guiding each family member to stand upright and do good deeds. It is also all kinds of fine family traditions that have finally made us a great Chinese nation that is diligent, wise, honest, brave, and self-improving.