The 2-year-old daughter 'fly hugs' her mother from get off work every night. Netizens: Where can I find such a caring baby?
As children grow older, they also begin to understand the hard work of their parents. Every time they see their parents dragging their tired bodies back home from get off work, they are always able to give them warmth in the first time, for example, rubbing their shoulders, thumping their backs, or serving them tea and water and many more.
Some time ago, a netizen uploaded a touching video on a social platform. In the video, Bao's mother came home from get off work stepping on the starlight. As soon as she walked out of the subway, she saw her daughter trotting all the way, and then gave herself a big hug. According to Bao's father, after dinner at six or seven o'clock every night, my daughter would walk one kilometer with her grandma to the subway entrance to wait for her mother to get off work. Therefore, when my daughter eats every night, she will ask her family to eat faster, so that she can pick up her mother home on time. Even at home, the daughter is very sensible and obedient, and will take the initiative to help parents get slippers after get off work.
After watching the video, netizens commented:
Netizen A: The little girl is really cute. I wish I had such a soft and cute daughter.
Netizen B: Mom is so happy to have such a sensible and obedient daughter!
Netizen C: I'm so sore, where can I find such a cute daughter? She said that the one in my family is like a little devil in the world, not obedient at all.
Of course, the reason why the little girl is so sensible and obedient is inseparable from her mother's earnest teaching. In other words, if you want your child to become sensible and obedient, it mainly depends on the parent's education method. If the parent can adopt the correct education method, then the child can gradually grow into the obedient child in our mind.
Of course, this does not mean that parents should control and transform their children in an all-round way, but should treat their children as an independent individual, and then strive to make themselves better and set a good example for their children. At the same time, children are able to constantly reflect on themselves and correct their shortcomings under the influence of their ears and eyes.
In order to infect children, parents should first establish a good parent-child relationship with their children. Because a good parent-child relationship is a major prerequisite for educating good children. If the relationship between parents and children is alienated or even contradictory, then naturally it will be impossible to establish an emotional connection. In this way, the child will become more and more rebellious, let alone sensible and filial?
Secondly, one thing parents need to realize is that the child is your "copy". If there is an error in the copy, you should find the answer and solve the problem from the original. In other words, when a child makes a mistake, the first thing parents have to do is not to criticize the child, but to reflect on themselves, whether there is a problem with the education method, or the child's discipline method is inappropriate, etc. Of course, in daily life, parents should also respect and be filial to their elders, and set a positive example for their children.
Finally, while parents pay attention to the way of education, they should not ignore the emotional needs of the child, give the child more company and care, and nourish the child's heart, so that he can thrive. When the child grows up in the future, he will give you the same care and love in his later years as you did back then.
Generally speaking, if parents want to cultivate their children's good character of being sensible and obedient, teaching by precept and example is an indispensable part. As Dong Qing said, what you want your child to grow up to be, you should first become what you want. Otherwise, everything is empty talk.