Kindergarten children 'divided into the same table' became popular, and netizens ridiculed after seeing the end: I picked up a big bargain

There is a song called "You at the Same Table", which makes many people feel touched when they hear it. The tablemates are usually the closest partners and friends in school, and they have all kinds of ups and downs stories and memories. People are most likely to remember the deskmates in middle school, but what about the deskmates in kindergarten? In fact, the deskmates in kindergarten bring more pure and sincere friendship, which is no worse than deskmates in other stages.

Kindergarten deskmates are generally assigned by teachers. Sometimes the teacher will make boys and girls pair up to be at the same table. Recently, there was an interesting video of a teacher sharing the same table with the children, which made people laugh. In the video, the teacher used the method of matching a boy and a girl to share the same table. The teacher asked the children to stand in two rows of boys and girls according to their height. Then a boy and a girl hold hands, let the girl complete the movement of turning in a circle, and then they can go to the seat assigned to them. But not every class has an equal number of boys and girls. In this class, there are three more girls. They were a little unhappy because there was no little gentleman to take them through the ceremony. The teacher thought of a way. When it was the last little boy's turn, he directly asked him to lead the two little girls around in circles with both hands. Now there are only two little girls left. When the other children had left, they were still standing there blankly. At this time, a chubby little boy came to the rescue and accidentally fell to the ground. But it doesn't matter, he can help the remaining two little girls complete the movement ceremony, making them all happy.

Netizens left messages on Weibo: "That little boy at the end is so loving. Otherwise, how would you know that little friend behaved like this.", "How good the kindergarten teaching is! How harmonious the children cooperate with each other! It's really good !", "Hahaha, so cute. Warm little chubby."

Children experience a variety of emotions at school. It is unrealistic to be happy forever, and it is normal to have conflicts and small frictions with peers. However, some parents have discovered such a phenomenon: after the child went to kindergarten, he learned some bad habits, such as crying and losing his temper, becoming stingy and so on. Don't worry, this is also a common phenomenon, and it is the impact of a negative social behavior.

There are two sides to everything, and the same goes for children socializing with their peers. There are benefits to socializing, but there are also negative effects. On the one hand, after children go to kindergarten, they will feel some chronic pressure. Because you are not used to leaving your family and parents, you will have some strange and uneasy feelings, that is, separation anxiety. And the teacher has to take care of so many children in the class, and sometimes cannot pay attention to the emotional changes of the children in time, which will also make the children feel neglected. Under these pressures, children often have some negative behaviors. On the other hand, there are differences in cognitive abilities and behavioral habits among peers. But it is the nature of children to learn and imitate. When other children in the class have behaviors such as crying, losing their temper, and not paying attention to hygiene, the child may also follow suit. Because children can't correctly distinguish the good and bad of some behaviors, and they can't control their own imitation behaviors.

So what should parents do when their children have negative social influences?

⑴ Double attention to children

Stress and separation anxiety can also occur when a child is new to kindergarten. Parents themselves should give their children more attention and care to make up for their children's psychological lack. Therefore, parents can carefully ask their children about their life today and what they have learned today after school. On the other hand, some behavior habits that children learn at school also require parental supervision and guidance. Bad habits also need to be corrected. Parents must never send their children to kindergarten and everything will be fine, just ignore them.

⑵Choose a teacher who can give children a sense of security

Parents cannot control the number of classes in the school, allowing their children to receive the full attention of teachers. But parents can try their best to choose a teacher who is gentle and careful for their children, who will make them feel safe. In this way, the child can establish a stronger relationship of trust and dependence with the teacher and reduce anxiety. It can also give children more guidance in life and behavior.

(3) Strengthen communication with teachers

The best channel for parents to know about their child's status and performance in school is the teacher. If the child has incorrect behavior or emotional problems at school, then parents can learn about the situation through the teacher in time and respond in time. Provide correct guidance and guidance for children's behavior and emotions.

Social skills are a very important and useful ability. But parents shouldn't assume that their children's social interactions with their peers are flawless. Parents can't just let their children have playmates of the same age and not worry about anything. Children's behavior habits still need parental supervision and guidance to correct them. Only in this way can children have healthy cognitive and behavioral abilities and grow better.