These three types of mothers are very 'terrifying' and have a great impact on the growth of the baby. Those who are recruited should quickly change to 7
As the first teachers on the child's growth path, parents' influence on children is self-evident, especially in families where children stay with their mother for the longest time, then the mother becomes the person who has a great influence on the child. , maybe a good mother is worth a hundred teachers, but a bad mother will also have a bad influence on the child's character and growth, and this influence is subtle. Here are three examples of mothers who are so "terrible" that they suffocate their children. Do you mothers look like this?
Type 1 mom: extreme, controlling moms
For children in many families, the child is the backbone of the mother, and the mother will revolve around the child every day. Mothers think that what they think is good is what their children need, just like in the TV series: they don't let their children eat breakfast outside, they can only eat soup that they have made themselves, and they need to know which school their children go to. Listen to the mother, change the child's thoughts into their own thoughts all day long, and operate everything in the future for the child. This is the so-called controlling mother.
【Impact on children】
A controlling mother just loves her child so much that she doesn't have the freedom and dreams she wants. This kind of education method will make the child feel suffocated. The mother's various controls and interventions will gradually make the child feel that the home is like a prison cell, and it will also make the child hate going home and seeing his mother. Over time, the child's character will also become cowardly and introverted. Even after the age of 30, if I become a father or mother, this influence from my mother will still exist in my heart.
【Advice to Mom】
As a parent, first of all, you need to treat the child as an independent individual, know that the child also has his own thoughts, understand and respect the child's wishes with heart, and let the child grow up with confidence. Secondly, more communication between parents and children is needed, because after good communication, the relationship between parents and children can be well promoted. Try to accept your child's negative emotions, and they also need space to do independent thinking.
The second type of mother: the mother who is addicted to the Internet world
There is a type of mother who, after returning home from get off work, in addition to sleeping and resting, most of the time they hold their mobile phones, either watching dramas or playing games. When children want to play with their mothers, mothers will only say one sentence: "Be good baby, play by yourself, mother is busy." Mothers smile at the mobile phone, but they are unwilling to make time to accompany their children, which leads to the growth of children. He has always been alone, eating alone, doing homework alone, and playing alone.
【Impact on children】
Parents who are addicted to the Internet and their own world for a long time will miss their children's growth, the period of character development, and all the important stages of their children's growth. Over time, the children will develop withdrawn, introverted, unwilling to character in dealing with people. And the relationship with my mother is not close enough, even after growing up, I still do not want to be close to my mother.
【Advice to Mom】
As a parent, you must be a good example to prevent your children from imitating themselves and indulging in the Internet during the learning time. Take your child out for a walk, so that the child can also discover and enjoy the beauty of the external environment. Spend more time with your children and accompany them through every important period of their growth in their lives. When mothers participate in the growth of their children, I believe you will feel a great sense of accomplishment.
The third type of mother: the mother who humiliates the other half in front of the child
For many families, quarrels are inevitable, but many mothers are more powerful. They have to quarrel with their husbands over any trivial matter, and even humiliate their other half. When they quarrel, they will call their husbands "waste" full of negative energy. Over time, the atmosphere at home has also become bad. Many parents don't take the quarrel between husband and wife seriously, thinking that it is okay to complain a few words, but for children, these words will cause them a lot of harm.
【Impact on children】
When many parents slander the other half in front of their children, it will distort the child's psychology, and will have a certain impact on the child's growth and character development. Growing up in an atmosphere where parents quarrel for a long time will make children unconsciously infected with this bad habit, such as: swearing when exporting, always treating others with impatience and so on.
【Advice to Mom】
Being a parent has a great impact on your children, so you must pay attention to your words and deeds in front of your children. Even if you have a lot of bad emotions to break out, don’t quarrel in front of your children, let alone insult others in front of your children. Half, try to give the child a warm home. In addition, parents should give their children more smiles, because a mother's smile is a power of love for children.
A good mother can make her child full of self-confidence on the way to growth, but a bad mother needs her child to spend her whole life to heal her childhood. Therefore, mothers, must bring their positive energy to their children, so that the children can be confident on the ground. For every day of life!