The father took the baby to watch the 'skating master' become popular, netizens: in the baby's eyes, it is a top
When it comes to curiosity, do many people first think of exploring and tossing, energetic babies? Curious babies are always in high spirits tossing around in every corner of the house, and they will also incarnate "100,000 whys", pestering parents to ask questions. Sometimes it really makes parents feel funny and helpless.
Curiosity is a normal psychological need that every baby has, and it is also curiosity that enables them to quickly understand the world and grow continuously. Recently there was a curious baby on Weibo. Those little eyes are exactly the same as that of his father, and at first glance they are father and son. In the video, the father stands on the second floor of an ice skating rink with his little one, a few months old. The first floor is the skating rink, and several people are skating on the field. The father took the child to look down from the second floor. Dad sat the child on the railing on the second floor and put his arms around the child's waist. For safety, a layer of glass is installed outside the railing, and the baby's little hands are firmly grasped on the glass edge. The father and son used this style to look straight at a woman on the ice rink downstairs. The lady was clearly a good skater, spinning in circles in a row. This technology obviously stunned the father and son on the second floor.
Netizens commented on Weibo: "Hahaha I can't help laughing.", "You are all thinking too much, they are counting how many laps they have made.", "What the children see is just a spinning shadow, In the baby's eyes, it is also a top."
Babies are still new and unfamiliar with the world, and it is precisely because of this that curiosity has become the driving force for children to understand the world. Its importance to a child's development cannot be overstated. So how can parents satisfy their children's curiosity?
⑴Let children explore freely
In the process of satisfying curiosity, children will always explore by themselves, and they will often make a mess at home and on themselves, and it is common to break a lot of things. In order to avoid this situation, some parents stop their children's self-exploration behaviors, and also block the development of children's cognitive ability and hands-on ability. In fact, parents don't have to restrain their children. If the child likes to play with water, they can arrange for him to help wash tomatoes and cucumbers. If the child likes to dismantle things, they will give him some unused objects, or directly let the child play with building blocks and build and dismantle them by himself. This not only satisfies the child's curiosity, but also reduces the child's destructive power.
(2) Do not constrain the baby with adult thinking
A child's world is imaginative and full of fairy tales. They see the world from a different perspective and think differently from adults. Parents should not restrain their children with the conventional thinking of adults, and then they will find that every child is a genius. A child encountered such a problem: use "little fish", "water" and "lively" in a sentence. Adults will definitely write "The little fish swims in the water, very lively." But this child wrote "The little fish swims past, the water is very lively." The teacher crossed this answer. But if you think about it carefully, there is some poetry hidden in this sentence. Although you can't write it like this in exams, this sentence is not necessarily wrong. This is a kind of fairy-tale thinking that belongs to children, and this kind of thinking should be preserved and protected.
⑶ Create an environment that satisfies the baby's curiosity
For children, any occasion is a paradise full of mystery and can be explored. Balconies, kitchens, parks, roads, even an ant nest. They can concentrate on playing in any corner for an afternoon. It's just that children can't tell which places and objects are dangerous and may injure themselves. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to create an environment for their children to explore. The first thing parents should do is to eliminate the unsafe factors around their children so that they can explore safely and freely. Parents can then give their children some hands-on opportunities and items. For example, parents can ask their children to remove the wool from the old sweaters they don’t need, and they can also let the children water the flowers and so on.
⑷Explore with your baby
A parent who is indifferent to the surrounding environment and disapproves of the child's curiosity will invisibly suppress and destroy the child's opportunities for curiosity and exploration. Therefore, parents should regain the mentality of a big child, accompany their children to explore and be curious together, in order to release their children's curious nature to the greatest extent. Parents can guide their children to observe the surrounding environment, discover and explore details in their daily life. For example, parents take their children out to play, and they can take the initiative to take their children to find beautiful flowers and grass, collect beautiful leaves, strange stones and so on. Cultivate children's observation ability, but also enhance the parent-child relationship.
The curiosity of the baby makes the baby accelerate to understand and integrate into this colorful world. Pay attention to and cultivate children's curiosity, let them explore, discover, and think driven by curiosity, so that they will eventually thrive. In childhood, being exposed to the beauty of the world because of curiosity will make them love the world more, and it will also help to develop good habits, optimistic characters, and observation and creativity.