The grandma brought a 9-month-old grandson to show off when she saw a 30-jin grandson, but her mother was worried
With the advancement of the times, the post-90s have also entered the peak period of starting a family and starting a business, and many post-90s have become parents. Since the post-90s generation has become the main force of childbearing, it seems that the elderly have rarely been asked to help with the baby. Of course, this is also because the concept of parenting is constantly being updated. Although it is really tiring to bring up the baby, most of the post-90s Mothers are still willing to bring their own babies. The parenting concepts of the two generations are completely different. The concept of the elderly is completely opposite to that of the young, and it is easy to cause conflicts between the two generations.
the case
Last night, after dinner, I went out to walk my baby and my husband. When I came to the square outside the gate of the community, I saw an old man pushing a baby carriage. Several old people surrounded them, chatting and laughing. It turned out that the old man was introducing his grandson to his old partner, so that everyone could recognize his big baby. "This is my grandson, my baby, how is it? Isn't he chubby and pretty?"
Hearing the old man's words, I glanced subconsciously, and saw a fat baby sitting in the stroller. The fat chin was gone. Although it was covered by clothes, I could still clearly see the fat outline of the child. I can't tell how big the baby is. According to the child's grandmother, the child is 9 months old and weighs 30 kilograms. Judging from the old man's expression, she is very proud of the child being so fat .
Just about to say something, a young mother came over in a hurry. It was obvious from her expression that she was very unhappy. She grabbed the food in the child's hand and said to the old man, "Mom, didn't I say that, Don't feed the child, eat so much food all day long, look at how fat the child is now, too fat is not good for the child's health, you are not raising a child but feeding pigs."
The old man was very angry when he heard what his daughter-in-law said, and accused his daughter-in-law, saying, "What do you know, children can only grow fast if they eat more, and their bodies will not lack nutrition. No wonder the children were so thin when you raised them, and you have been starving them all the time." Ah, if I hadn't come here, my grandson might be so skinny, it's good for the child to be fat for nothing, my son also came here like this, isn't he fine now?"
Dare to love because the mother's maternity leave is due and she needs to go back to work. She had to pick up the child's grandma to help take care of the child. She thought that she would come back to take care of the child after the busy period. I didn't expect the child to be raised by the grandma like this. The weight soared straight up, and the child's mother was also very helpless, so she said to the old man, "Mom, I will not go to work starting tomorrow. Thank you for your hard work during this time. You can go home and take care of Dad tomorrow." Mom pushed the child and turned away, and the old man had no choice but to follow home in embarrassment.
analyze
In the concept of the elderly, children should be white and fat when they are young, so that they can be raised well and children are healthy. Therefore, if the elderly take care of their children, the most important thing is to eat. It is no wonder that netizens will ridicule, The babies brought out by grandma are all chubby.
In fact, everyone knows that if a child is too fat, it is really not a sign of health, but it will cause serious problems in the child's growth, development and physical health.
If a child is overweight, what will be the specific impact?
- Excessive obesity in children can cause some diseases
Whether it is an adult or a child, excessive obesity will cause the problem of three highs. If it is serious, it will also cause cardiovascular and cerebrovascular problems. If the child is overweight, it will also bring great troubles to exercise. The rhythm is not up, and there will be shortness of breath, so mothers must pay special attention to these problems.
- Excessive obesity in children will affect the normal growth and development of children
Generally speaking, a child's bone and body weight are directly proportional. If the child's weight is too heavy, it will bring a burden to the growth of the bone, and the bone needs to bear more fat weight. If the child's bone is overweight for a long time In the state of overload, there will be growth problems and even diseases.
Obese children generally have endocrine disorders. Some hormones can inhibit the secretion of growth hormone, so children may only gain weight but not height, and their height will be shorter than children of the same age.
- Excessive obesity in children will have a negative impact on mental health
A child's growth needs to be comprehensive, not only to gain weight, but also to grow psychologically. If the child is overweight, he will be obviously different from children of the same age. This difference will make the child feel inferior and attract other children. The ridicule and isolation of children have a negative impact on children's mental health and growth.
Epilogue
A child who is a little fatter will be cute, but if he is overweight, the impact on the child will be both physically and mentally, so there must be a scale for everything, don’t overdo it, otherwise what you gain will not be health and happiness, but bad heart and upset.