'Don't save me, I'm too tired', if school doesn't start again, parents will be forced to form a group and jump into the river
After the child is born, it is given high expectations by the parents, and the most convenient way to make the child become a dragon is to rely on schoolwork. Therefore, after the child goes to school, the academic performance has naturally become the most important thing for parents. As long as the child goes to primary school, homework must be done every day, and it has become the primary task of parents to accompany their children to do homework every night. There are also a lot of jokes about watching children do their homework on the Internet, which always make everyone laugh witty, but there are also thought-provoking content.
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Due to the epidemic, children have started online classes at home, and parents have turned into administrators to take care of their children's learning in class. Not long ago, something like this happened somewhere. In the middle of the night, someone called the police and reported that they saw someone jumping into the river on a bridge. It is estimated that something happened and they couldn't figure it out.
After receiving the alarm, the firefighters rushed out and rescued a woman who intended to commit suicide in the river under the bridge mentioned in the alarm, but during the rescue process, the soft lady kept saying: " Don't save me, I'm too tired." After the firefighters rescued the woman who committed suicide, they began to comfort the lady, who later talked about the original nature of the suicide.
It turned out that this lady was the mother of an 8-year-old boy. After dinner that night, she kept telling the child to do homework and homework, but the son didn't say that he wanted to drink water or go to the toilet, or to find a variety of things. The reason is procrastination, that is, not willing to do homework well.
At the beginning, the lady was very patient and persuaded the child well. In order to make the child calm down, she even sat on the side to help the child analyze the problems that he could not understand. But the child still didn't get any improvement. No matter what question, he just said "I don't know" before he even understood the question. If he just finished the question type, he didn't know how to do it by changing the number. Later, the lady really couldn't hold back her anger and scolded the child angrily. Unexpectedly, the child began to cry and said, "I don't want my mother anymore, I don't want my mother anymore."
I was so angry with the child that my throat was smoking, and I turned around and walked out of the house, getting angry as I walked. Later, I really didn't understand, so I didn't want to live anymore.
Many netizens also resonated a lot after seeing the news. Many parents seemed to be shouting, "Don't save me, I'm too tired." Some netizens said, "If school doesn't start again, many parents will Being driven crazy, it is possible to form a group to jump into the river."
When parents guide their children to study, there are also many problems that need to be paid attention to, mainly the following points
- Clearly let children know that using procrastination tactics is completely useless behavior
As long as it’s time to study, many children try every means to delay the time. Sometimes they want to drink some water, sometimes they want to go to the toilet, and sometimes they want to do something else, just to avoid studying. When parents find that their children are adopting procrastination tactics, they must clearly tell their children that "procrastination is useless". Parents can't help their children to relieve pressure. Instead, they should tell their children that no matter what time, even if they don't sleep, they must After the homework is finished, only in this way, the child knows that it is useless to procrastinate, and he will correct the problem by himself.
Second, parents must hold back their temper, and don't get angry when they are angry
There are actually reasons why children don’t like to do homework. Some children have a strong sense of frustration because they have not grasped the basic knowledge and do not understand the key points of the topic very well. Some children can't calm down because they have strong curiosity and rich imagination, and some children think they don't want to do it because they know it all. These are all children who don't want to do homework or procrastinate on homework. reason.
Parents need to focus on their children's problems and solve their children's problems before they can solve practical problems. For example, if the basic knowledge of the child is not strong, then the parents should take the child to review the basic knowledge. If the child is curious, then the child's curiosity must be satisfied. Only in this way Only then can we fundamentally solve the child's problem, but instead of blindly blaming and rebuking me, I'm so angry with myself that the child still doesn't understand it at all.
- Don't use aggressive language to harm children
Although children have problems of one kind or another, who did not come here from this time? Parents, as those who have come here, should understand better.
And once people become impulsive, they will say some extreme words, such as saying to children "Why are you so stupid", "You are stupid like a pig", etc. Such words are a kind of cold violence to children. It is even more harmful than a fat beating, but it makes children hate learning and homework even more.