'Mom, hold', why does the baby only like to be held by the mother? It's so heartwarming to know the reason

With the continuous development of science and technology, people's living standards are also constantly improving. Many families choose to welcome their next generation after having affluent living conditions. After a long period of pregnancy preparation, the baby is finally born. Pregnant mothers gradually find that as the baby grows older, the baby is only held by the mother alone, and the baby will cry immediately when someone else hugs it. Although this is a very gratifying and happy thing for the mother, why does the baby How about such a performance? Let’s take a look at the following reasons.

1. Feel more secure and avoid fear

In September of pregnancy, the baby has been in the pregnant mother's belly. The surrounding amniotic fluid and fetal membranes provide a good development environment for the baby. The baby is very comfortable and safe in the pregnant mother's belly, but the baby is separated after birth. In this safe environment, the baby is full of doubts and fears in the face of the unknown world and things. At this time, the mother needs to pay more attention to and take care of the baby. This is why the baby only lets the mother hold the baby. The baby hopes to get more security through the mother, so when the baby asks the mother to hold the baby, the mother must take the initiative. Give the baby more care, give the baby a sufficient sense of security, and avoid the baby's fear.

2. Only the most familiar people can make the baby feel at ease

It is said that mothers and children are connected by blood, but who says they are not? Isn't the baby just the flesh that fell from the mother's body! Therefore, there will be a mysterious connection between the baby and the mother. This connection allows the baby to distinguish that the mother is the person closest to him, the person who can protect himself the most and give him a sense of security. Therefore, when the baby is born, the most It is better to be closest to your own mother, so she will only let her hold herself. Mothers should understand this. When the baby needs you, don't hide, but give the baby the last sense of security. Don't take this as sweet troubles! Because only the people you know best can put your baby at ease.

3. The baby lacks care and wants to attract the attention of the mother

In addition, there is another situation where the baby lacks care and wants to attract the attention of the mother. If the child often asks the mother to hold it, it is likely because the baby lacks a sense of security and lacks the care brought by the parents. Sometimes the parents are busy with It is very easy to ignore the care of the baby during housework or work, which makes the child very insecure, so the child often asks the mother to hold it. The child is using this method to attract the mother's attention. In this case, mothers must reflect on themselves, whether they are negligent in the process of taking care of the baby, which makes the baby feel very insecure, and more consider the baby's feelings in ordinary life, so that the baby can feel the Parental care, so as to more effectively promote the growth of the baby and the good development of the parent-child relationship

It is normal for a baby not to be held by others. After all, at birth, he is full of resistance to the unknown world. Only the closest people can give the baby a sufficient sense of security. The above are a few reasons why this happens. how about you? Is your baby not allowed to be held by others?