The brother's meticulous feeding of the sister's noodles was highly praised, netizens: most rural families will do this
Parents take care of their children and give them a lot of love and care. Parents are always trying their best to give their children the best of everything. Although this is very hard, and it is not for the purpose of trying to repay the child, there is really no parent who does not hope that their efforts can be exchanged for the understanding and consideration of the child.
Parents will be very pleased that children can be sensible and considerate, but sometimes such children are also distressing. A Weibo blogger posted a video of a little boy who was supposed to be coquettish in his mother's arms, at most three or four years old, but he learned to take care of his sister early. In the video, two children are seen standing and sitting at a low wooden table with a bowl of noodles in front of them. My brother can already eat with chopsticks. But my sister is still young, not only can't use chopsticks, but even spoons are not very neat. So the elder brother spontaneously began to take care of the younger sister to eat. He picked up the spoon in his left hand, and with the chopsticks in his right hand, he carefully picked up a little noodle and put it into the spoon. Put the chopsticks down again, switch the spoon to the right hand, and gently feed it into the mouth of the sister. Before feeding my sister, I was afraid that the noodles would be too hot, so I let my sister eat it by blowing it gently. Really attentive and warm.
Netizens left messages on Weibo: "It's good that two brothers and sisters love each other.", "The parents have gone to work in the farm, and the older ones can only take care of the younger ones. Some people say that parents are not responsible for anything, not every family, parents can I have been accompanying the children all the time, and most of them take care of each other. There is nothing wrong with this. The elder brother and sister take care of the younger brother and sister, and the younger brother and sister will also warm the heart of the elder brother and sister. An ordinary family is like this, and it is not bad. The future will be good."
Although the parents pay a lot for their children, it is not for the children's return, but if the parents are sick and ask the children to help pour a glass of water, the children say: "Why are you so lazy, you don't pour it yourself and let me pour it. Go to the doctor when you are sick. I can't cure it." Such words, parents are also very cold. Parents all hope that their children can be sensible and considerate. It is not necessary for the children to do this or that, but to hope that the children can understand the parents and give them some care.
So how can parents teach their children to be sensible and considerate?
⑴ Give the child the opportunity to give
Children need to learn to care about others, and they definitely need an opportunity to care about others. So parents don't need to keep everything perfect by themselves, so that children really don't have to worry about anything. Parents can also give their children some opportunities to give and express their concern. For example, after parents come back from get off work, ask their children to bring their shoes over, or ask their children to prepare a glass of water for themselves in advance. When children understand how to care about others, they will naturally be more sensible and considerate.
(2) Make children feel needed
Whether it is an adult or a child, the sense of being needed cannot be lacking. Otherwise, you won't understand what you need to do and what you can do. Parents can show weakness when facing their children, and do not need to worry about their own face as a parent all the time. Tell the child that he is very tired and needs a hug and a kiss from the child. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. Only by letting the child know that the parents need his care will he understand that he should be caring and considerate of the parents.
(3) Acknowledging the child's contribution in a timely manner
Parents pay for their children, hoping to get their children's understanding and consideration. Children are the same. When children pay for their parents. No matter how small it is, even if it is just a glass of water for the parents, or a simple origami for the parents, it needs a thank you and praise from the parents. "Baby is so sensible and really loves mom!", "Thank you, baby, you have helped a lot!" Thank you for giving children an estimate and affirmation, and it is also the motivation for them to continue to care about their parents.
Parents, just imagine, if the child will pester the parents to ask if they are tired, bring a glass of water to the parents, or share it with the parents first when there is something delicious. Does this situation make parents feel very happy? A sensible and considerate little sun is what every parent wants. But no child needs guidance and is born considerate of others. Parents give their children some patience and guidance, and they will definitely receive a warm little sun.